Obituaries

TOSTENSON (NEE BROWN), Phylis Carol

TOSTENSON: Phylis Carol (nee Brown) was born December 7, 1924 in North Battleford, Saskatchewan and died in Kelowna, BC on January 15, 2024 at the age of 99.

Phylis was predeceased by her loving husband Henry of 74 years. She is survived by her sons Brian and Ron (Wende) and daughters Louise (Andy) and Shirley (Les), nine grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren. Phylis was predeceased by her parents Harry and Alice Brown, her brother Eric, her sister Daphne and her granddaughter Sarah.

Mom attended her first four years of school in the Lilydale school district Rural 456. Mom’s family then moved to Kelowna where she attended school for four more years and then the family returned to Chichester Lake and Mom attended her last four years at Battleford Collegiate Institute in Battleford. Following graduation Mom worked in the Royal Bank, transferring to Kelowna when her family moved there in 1945. She worked at the Royal Bank during which time, she met our Dad on a blind-date and they were married in 1948.

Mom supported Dad in his business endeavours and his baseball activities. Mom was very involved with her church and the organizations her children were involved with. Mom and Dad loved their travels abroad, their winters away in California and their many getaway travels with their life-long friends.

Mom loved her children, grand-children and great grand-children and we thank her for the love, care and guidance she gave us unconditionally.

FAMILY, FRIENDS and FAITH…..our MOM

A funeral will be held in the springtime, Monday, May 13 at 1:00 PM when her family and friends can gather, at the Cathedral Church of St Michael and All Angels, Anglican Church, Kelowna.

Condolences may be sent to the Tostenson family by visiting www.firstmemorialfuneralkelowna.com

Arrangements entrusted with First Memorial Funeral Services, Kelowna, BC 250-762-2299

Link: www.firstmemorialfuneralkelowna.com

Condolence Messages

Feb 03, 2024
Louise,Shirley,Ron,Brian condolences to you all . Your mom was a pillar of strength to all of us young ball players she was always there when called on . She always put her family first. What a great wife and mom . Another angel has been added and will be sorely missed. Jack Burton - Jack Burton
Jan 29, 2024
Louise and family;

My sincere condolences on the passing of your mom. I have fond memories of the Tostenson family when we lived in the north end of Kelowna. Tor mom and dad were lifelong friends with our over many years.

Sincerely;

Rod Moubray - Rod Moubray
Jan 28, 2024
Louise and Andy, so sorry to hear of Phyllis's departure. She was so welcoming and friendly to us all. Talk about pillars of the church -that was Phyllis and Henry. I grieve with you. - Bob Lemon
Jan 23, 2024
To the Tostenson Family. So sorry to hear of Mrs.T's passing. She always believed in all of us as kids. I still find it hard to believe she allowed two 18yr old kids (Rod Armitage and me) to coach a bunch of 13yr olds and take them to Richmond for the BC allstars.

Respect and Love

Ray Moore - Ray Moore
Jan 23, 2024
Growing up in Kelowna as a young baseball player, you couldn’t help but be affected in a positive way by Mr and Mrs T. Condolences to the family. - Dan Kilburn
Jan 23, 2024
Louise and family I am sorry for the loss of your mother. I remember her as a very feisty woman of which her longevity is proof. My thoughts are with you all. - Sue Hodgkinson
Jan 23, 2024
Dear Louise and Andy and the Tostenson family,

So sorry to hear about your mom Louise. It is always so hard to say goodbye to your mom. I know that you all have wonderful memories of her. She was a gracious lady with a beautiful smile and always so friendly. Know that we are thinking about you.

Don and Sheila Kennedy - Sheila
Jan 23, 2024
Brian and Family,

We are sorry to hear of your Mom's

passing. Our thoughts are with you during this

very difficult time. A beautiful legacy has been

left by your parents. l

Another shining star in our heaven

Marlene Schluter and Rob Vickers - Marlene
Jan 23, 2024
Dear Family,

Thinking of you all at this sad time.

- Cam and Patty McIntosh
Jan 23, 2024
Sorry to hear of your mom passing i dealt mostly with Hank and Brian for many years may she rest in pease and be Hank again - Edgar & Lynn Fleury
Jan 23, 2024
Phylis will always have a special place in my heart, she was special and wow she was so respected in Kelowna , She was a a great asset to Kelowna and made it a better place to live

SO thanks what you did for the citizens of Kelowna

Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Domenic abd LIna Rampone - Domenic
Jan 23, 2024
Brian, Louise, Shirley and Ron,

We are so sorry to hear of your mum's passing. Both your mum and dad were great friends of our parents, Tony and Gillian Bull for many years.

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

Much love, Kirsten and family - [email protected]
Jan 23, 2024
Brian, my condolences to you and your family. - L. Sawchuk
Jan 22, 2024
Dear Brian, Shirley, Louise and Ron: we are so very sorry to hear of your sweet Mom's passing. Her sparkling personality and loving ways will be missed by so many. Your Mom and Dad were very special people, such a pleasure to know. Thinking of you all.

Rudy and Lucy Litz - Rudy Litz
Jan 22, 2024
Brian and family, I have so many great memories of growing up with the Leon Ave crew in the 60s and 70s and all our great parents that helped raise us, including of course, your mom and dad. Those were the days! My condolences to all of you....be proud of the legacy that Phyllis and Henry have left....all of you. - Glenn Prior
Jan 22, 2024
Brian, Louise and family’s

Sorry to hear of your Moms passing. As MJ pointed out our folks spent many good holiday times together while south in Palm Springs.

Patti and I got to share one of those in 2014 when Dad and Lovisa made their last trip with the Motor Home and we all stayed at the Rancho Casa Blanca resort.

Just a simple casino diner out was the proof that our folks had certainly enjoyed themselves so many times together in the past.

Phylis and Henry certainly leave so many memories to charish.

The Carter Family - Greg Carter
Jan 22, 2024
Shirley, Les and family. so very sorry for your loss. Our condolences, hang on tight to all the memories. - Sharon and Don Hoffman
Jan 22, 2024
Brian and family. Our condolences and thoughts are with you. - Reg & Pauline Keilty
Jan 22, 2024
I had a nice visit with Mrs T at Mr T celebration she was still so sharp my thoughts are with Brian and Louise and Shirley and Ron take care Ron Jorde - Ron Jorde
Jan 22, 2024
Louise, Brian and family - So sorry for your loss. May your hearts be filled with memories of love and blessings. Sending healing hugs and prayers during this difficult time. - Michele & Bob Sibson
Jan 22, 2024
Brian Louise Ron my heart goes out to all of you your mother was a very good person who help so many she will be missed Don Favell - Don Favell
Jan 22, 2024
To the Tostenson Family... I am so sorry for your loss. Mr and Mrs T did so much for baseball in the Kelowna area and I attended many of their camps at Elks Stadium. Thank you for everything your folks did for us. Rest in Peace. - Steve Boutang
Jan 21, 2024
It’s with our sincere condolences to the entire Tostenson Family and friends for the loss of Mrs. Tostenson. The Phillips Family has fond memories of the entire Tostenson family. When we visited at Elks Stadium a couple of years ago she was so very pleased to learn that our family thinks of her while we make her pancake recipe

every Sunday morning and will continue to do so.

Thinking of all of you,

Sandee Tremblay (Phillips) and Family - Sandee Tremblay
Jan 21, 2024
Sending our families deepest Condolences to all of your family. I have alot of very fond memories of your mom, and all of your family from when we were good friends in school Shirley. May your mom REST in Peace. Sincerely Jacquie Phillips and family - Jacquie Phillips
Jan 21, 2024
Louise and family, sending my condolences at this sad time - Janice Fearn
Jan 21, 2024
We are so sorry for your loss Shirley, Les and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. - Gene & Kerry Weninger.
Jan 21, 2024
Thinking of you all, my sincere condolences

Mary Bazzana - Mary Bazzana
Jan 21, 2024
Brian, sending our deepest condolences to you and your family during this very difficult time

Barry & Melissa - Melissa
Jan 21, 2024
RIP sweet Phyllis, say hi to Henry for me. Together again.

Kathy Brunsdon
Jan 21, 2024
Dear Louise and family, What a special lady, always difficult to lose your Mom at any age. She will be happy to be reunited with her hubby! So many wonderful memories for you all to share. Thinking of you. With friendship, Wendy - Wendy Crawford
Jan 21, 2024
Dear Louise, Andy and Family!

Very saddened to hear of the loss of your sweet Mom! Hold all those wonderful memories close to your heart. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love Bobbie& Bruce - Bobbie Currie
Jan 21, 2024
When I think of your Mom I remember her brightness when she walked into a room. How she was so kind and welcoming always. I reflect back on all the good times with both your parents with mine in the great Palm Springs days and all the fun your mom and Dad brought to the gatherings.

With Love & Hugs to your family. RIP dear Phylis - MJ Addison
Jan 21, 2024
Louise,Brian, Shirley, Ron & Family . . . We were so saddened to hear of your mom‘s passing! You’re in our thoughts and prayers as you reflect on the beautiful life she lived with Hank & her family! Cherish all those special times you’ve shared ! It is a marvellous legacy Phyllis & Hank have left all of us who were impacted by their generous, caring nature!! Our love to you all, Bernie & Ev Monteleone - Bernie & Ev Monteleone
Jan 21, 2024
Louise, Andy & families. Sorry for the loss of your Mom. We didn't see her after after being neighbors on Leon so many years ago. Your Mom & Dad were so ivolvrd in the community & will be missed

Carol & Woody - Carol Robinson
Jan 21, 2024
Shirley, Les and family - So sorry for the loss of your mom. Our thoughts are with you. - Cathie Wilk & Danny Ackerman
Jan 21, 2024
Really sorry Brian to see the loss of your mom, take care.

Tim Ansell - Tim Ansell
Jan 21, 2024
Shirley and family - we are so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. Your Mom always took time to chat and ask about everyone. A wonderful lady. Our deepest condolences.

Jill and Ken McGuire - Jill McGuire
Jan 21, 2024
Louise, Shirley, Brian, Ron and Family:

Please know I am so sorry to hear of Phylis passing. She was a very real lady, we had many great times together and will miss her for sure. I hope your memories will help to soften your loss.

Norm Fix and Family - Norm Fix
Jan 21, 2024
Sorry to hear of your mum Louis and the rest of the family we all know it is going to happen but are never ready for it. The name Tostenson will never be forgotten by any old Kelowna people Hank did more for baseball than anyone - Eric
Jan 20, 2024
Louise, Shirley, Brian, Ron, and all the family:

Phylis was the brightest of bright lights; a delight every day, in every way. We grieve her passing, and especially the difficulties of the past few years, while holding you in our hearts and prayers. There's one more bright star in our heaven; and I trust that it also has Henry's spirit within it. - David & Carmel Worrall