Obituaries

ROSS, Barbie Dean

In Loving Memory of Barbie Dean Ross
June 2nd, 1949 - May 19th, 2023

Barbie Dean Ross, a beautiful and creative spirit, left this world on May 19th, 2023, leaving behind cherished memories and a legacy of love. Born on June 2nd, 1949, in Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan to Jack and Beryl Elliott, Barbie brought joy and warmth to the lives she touched throughout her journey.

Barbie's unwavering love and devotion knew no bounds. She was a loving wife to her beloved husband, Ken, and a pillar of strength and support to her four adoring sons: Ryan and his wife Dawn, Michael and his wife Kelly, John and his partner Paddie, and Steven, who will forever hold her in their hearts. Her radiant love extended to her grandchildren, Andrew, Daniel, Henry, Florence, Jack, and Kate, filling their lives with endless affection and joy. Barbie's family circle extended to her dear brother, Bob, and his wife, Sherry, who stood by her side throughout life's journey. She also leaves behind her niece, Jacquie, and her husband, Rob, along with their two children, Josephine and her Fiancé Dylan and son Jake, who brought immense joy to her life. Barbie's nephew, Jimmy, and his wife, Kathryn, were also cherished members of her family.

In addition to her immediate family, Barbie's love and influence touched the lives of her extended family members, including her nieces Sandra and her husband Mike, Kate, Jennifer, and Julie and her husband Dave, as well as her niece Lisa. Their bonds of kinship were strengthened by the love and warmth Barbie shared with them.

In 1965, after numerous summer spent at the family cottage on Buffalo Pound Lake, Barbie, and her parents relocated to Kelowna, BC, where she attended Kelowna High School. It was there that she became known as a vibrant and spirited individual, taking on leadership roles such as head cheerleader and president of coed. It was also during her time at KHS that she crossed paths with the love of her life, Ken.

Barbie's passion for fashion and design led her to pursue her dreams at the Bassett School of Fashion and Interior Design in Portland in 1967. Her talent and dedication propelled her career, and in 1970, she became the division manager of Sears in Kelowna, making her the youngest manager to fulfill such a role. Her eye for style and detail allowed her to create stunning interiors that left a lasting impression on the Okanagan Valley. Notable projects included the School House Pub, Baxter's Pub, McCulloch Station Pub, Harvest Golf Club, and Sun Rivers Golf Club in Kamloops. Barbie's expertise also extended to major developments such as Talus Ridge and Kirschner Mountain. She generously lent her skills to numerous individuals, assisting them with the interior design of their personal homes. Barbie's love for her community was exemplified through her involvement in various charitable events and organizations. She wholeheartedly dedicated herself to the Kelowna Regatta, Lady of the Lake, Kelowna Mardi Gras, Ladies' Night Out with the Kelowna Firemen, Heart of Gold Foundation, Daffodil Ball, and numerous other events for the KGH Foundation. Her passion for giving back extended to the Centennial Mercantile, where she took great pleasure in handpicking items for the gift shop in the hospital, ensuring a delightful experience for patients and visitors alike.

Beyond her professional accomplishments and philanthropic endeavors, Barbie found joy and contentment in her personal life. In 1972, she and Ken exchanged vows and embarked on a journey together. They purchased a picturesque acreage in the Joe Rich Valley, where they built a beautiful log home for their four boys. They also opened a charming bed and breakfast, as well as an antique shop known as the Joe Rich Mercantile. Barbie's love for fashion blossomed in the early eighties when she joined forces with her friend Dianne Friesen to create RAF Promotions, producing numerous fashion shows, most notably the fashion show at Expo 86.

In the year 2000, Barbie and Ken embarked on a new chapter of their lives, moving their family home down to our beautiful Okanagan Lake. This move allowed Barbie to fulfill her dream of becoming "Grandma on the Lake," a role she cherished dearly. The lake house became a haven for love and togetherness, where Barbie hosted countless large family gatherings, that created lasting memories for generations to come. Alongside Ken, Barbie also embarked on exciting adventures with her brother Bob and his wife Sherry. Together they shared an Airstream trailer, journeying across the breathtaking landscapes as well as the the vibrant cities and charming small towns of Canada and the USA. These shared experiences brought them closer together, deepening their bonds and creating treasured moments that would forever hold a special place in their hearts.

Today, as we mourn the loss of Barbie Dean Ross, we celebrate the vibrant and passionate life she led. Her creative talents, philanthropic spirit, and unwavering dedication to her family and community have left an indelible mark on all who knew her. Barbie's memory will forever be treasured, and her legacy of love and inspiration will continue to live on.

Barbie’s family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude to the dedicated staff at the Kelowna Cancer Clinic and the Palliative Care Program. Their unwavering compassion and support throughout Barbie’s journey was truly incredible. The exceptional care she received from these healthcare professionals not only eased her physical discomfort but also provided solace to her entire family towards the end of her life. Barbie’s family is eternally grateful for the comfort and peace they brought to their beloved Barbie in her final days. Barbie Dean Ross, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, auntie, daughter, sister, and friend, has left a void that can never be filled. May her soul find eternal peace, and may her love continue to buzz in your heart like the queen bee that she was!

There will be a viewing at Everden Rust on June 4th from 7-9 PM. A celebration of Barbie's life will be held on June 5th at 1 PM at Trinity Church. Family, friends, and all whose lives have been touched by Barbie are welcome to join and pay their respects. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Kelowna General Hospital Foundation in Barbie's honour. It is asked for everyone attending to do so in colour, to match Barbie’s colourful spirit! If you cannot attend in person there will be a live stream available. The link will be posted to Barbie’s website at the address below. The internment is open to all and will be held on June 6th at 10:30 AM at Kelowna Memorial Park Cemetery. If you would like to leave Barbie a message in the cloud, and for the live stream link, please go to www.queenbeelove.buzz

It’s not goodbye… it’s love ya see ya!

Arrangements in care of Everden Rust Funeral Services 250-860-6440

Link: www.everdenrust.com

Condolence Messages

Aug 27, 2023
This is so sad to hear. I met Barbie many many years ago when I was a little girl..I was friends with her son John in elementary school. I remember feeking so welcome in their home when I would go to Johns birthdays or just to play. Her and her family have a piece of the happy memories of my childhood and I will always hold that special to my heart. - Ashley Tansowny
Jun 25, 2023
I was so lucky to have met Barbie @ Highlands Family Dental. I remember her one visit, making this elderly man who had dementia, smile … a huge smile! She had her way.

Wow!

RIP Barbie - Helen Munro
Jun 07, 2023
Our world just got a little smaller , a little darker with that bright light of Barbie gone missing … Our thoughts and prayers are with you , Ken and your kids ! A sorrowful time for your whole extended family and barn full of close friends . Miss that bright smiling light

Linda and Stu Ritchie - Linda and Stu
Jun 07, 2023
Ken, and family,

We are so saddened to hear the news of Barbie’s passing! We will all miss her bubbly personality and her ability to make everyone feel special! We always had a good chat when you hosted the OKM year end gathering, just one example of her generosity and kindness. We always loved our Moose Jaw connection!

Cherish all the wonderful memories!

Sorry to have missed the service as we are away.

Loads of love from Scott and myself.

With deepest condolences Jody and Scott Cronquist - Jody Cronquist
Jun 06, 2023
My condolences to the Ross family for the loss of Barbie, I grew up in Joe rich right down the road from the Ross family and always remember a fondness of the family congrigating for meals and having alot of fun riding the half pipe ramp Ken had made us. Barbie would often pick us up from black mountain school in her country squire station wagon which was a good memory we had so much fun Ryan , Mike and I. Barbie was so nice and an amazing lady in my life then. She will be forever missed and thoughts of her embedded in my childhood. Forever in our hearts she will be missed. - Mark Beaulieu - Mark Beaulieu
Jun 05, 2023
Sending my heartfelt condolences to the Ross family. I attended school with Ryan from kindergarten to grade 12 and have fond memories of Barbie through those years. Thinking back now, her love for her boys was clearly evidenced by all the time, energy and unmatched enthusiasm she put into any school related activities.

That love and care went beyond her family. Later in life whenever I would cross paths with Barbie, she always showed genuine interest to see me. I know she did with everyone whose lives she touched.

I hope Ken, the boys and their respective families can find comfort in the memories shared by so many of the vibrant, kind and loving soul Barbie was, and how she reflected that right back to her community. She will be truly missed and my thoughts are with you all. - Leslie Schwartz
Jun 05, 2023
Our heartfelt Condolences go out to the Ross Family,

Barbie’s vivacious, creative and generous spirit has definitely left its mark on our family. My husband Ward first met Barbie through their mutual connection with Voyager RV and the Friesen family. We would later meet Barbie out in the community at the many functions she generously contributed to. Meeting at the Olympic torch bearing ceremony, finally making the connection that one of OKM’s finest and most influential teachers was indeed her son, Mike Ross.

The time we spent together while Barbie helped us renovate our condo, was such a treat for me. It was such a collaborative process, where she shared her talent and her friendship…I’ll forever be grateful and inspired by having known her. Our love to your family. - Connie and Ward Fraser
Jun 05, 2023
Ken, the boys and family, you're so fortunate to have the wonderful unstoppable Barbie for a wife, a mother, a mother-in-law, a grandmother, a friend, a confidante, an ideal, the real deal, I could go on and on. I was sorry to have missed her when she left with Kelsey before I got there, so great to see you KR. I just finished watching the service so I was able to laugh and cry with everyone. Lots of love to you all. Her granddaughter did an amazing straight-from-the-heart eulogy.

- Pam Knott
Jun 05, 2023
Ken and boys, my sincere condolences to all of you and your families on your loss of your lovely wife and mother. I have known Barbie since Kindergarten days at Black Mountain Elementary. She was a joy to know. I will miss our encounters here and there around Kelowna over the busy years of life. She always had time to chat and I was always left with a warm feeling and memories of little visits. I will forever be in awe of the amazing person she was. My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. - Sharon Schwartz
Jun 05, 2023
Condolences Ken and boys. So sorry for your loss. It is a very difficult time. Nerlinger family. - Sharon
Jun 05, 2023
Barbie Ross was an amazing woman! She “gave” so much of herself to her community and family and friends! It was an absolute pleasure to be in her presence! Her humour and dedication were unmatched! Thank you, Barbie for “being YOU” and for touching my life and many others. Our most sincere condolences to her family and friends due to her passing. She will be organizing and directing the angels in her new life in heaven!

Sallie LaBounty

- Sallie LaBounty
Jun 05, 2023
Barbie was a bundle of energy and ideas, she affected so many of us who came in contact with her and she certainly changed my life. I moved to Kelowna back in 1966 and joined Teen Town to meet people and learned very soon that Barbie held court and many social events were orchestrated by her. She taught me to be myself and not worry about what others thought and to become my best me.

In later years we met on projects and always enjoyed the repartee we shared. Barbie was loved by those she served and on one occasion she and I met at a mutual clients home to visit before he passed away. Her love for others was always illustrated by her going that extra mile. Rest In Peace Barbie, many will speak your name long after you are gone.

Love and condolences to Ken and family. - Stew Turcotte
Jun 04, 2023
Ken and family , my heart goes out to you. Barbie was a one of a kind , and will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her.

Eileen

- Eileen Harvey (Thorburn)
Jun 03, 2023
Ken and Boys.

Lots of fun memories of Barbie from Joe Rich.

She was a big push to get the JR rink going!.. with Ken’s great help.

I always enjoyed our parent/teacher chats!

Our condolences to all.

Reg and Doreen Volk and Family - Reg Volk
Jun 03, 2023
Sincere condolences , Ken to you and your family. She was a wonderful mentor and friend. Barbie was a joy to know and to work with at the Centennial Mercantile. Take care and may your joyous memories bring you some peace. - Norma Frick
Jun 03, 2023
Sincere condolences , Ken to you and your family. She was a wonderful mentor and friend. Barbie was a joy to know and to work with at the Centennial Mercantile. Take care and may your joyous memories bring you some peace. - Norma Frick
Jun 03, 2023
KR and family,

The world, and especially Kelowna was a much richer place because of Barbie. When Barbie was a in a room she owned “it”. Her colourful personality, sense of style, vision, joy of life, and concern for others made her an unstoppable force of nature. Barbie’s love of family, friends and community is part of an admirable legacy.

I had the pleasure of being apart of the bridge club, a group of strong and vivacious women, Barbie of course being the Queen Bee. We had many laughs and adventures on our annual trip to Spokane or Okanagan Lake Resort. We had many laughs, discussions and Barbie contributed so much to the group.

Barbie has touched and influenced so many, she will be missed. Janet Fisher
Jun 02, 2023
KR and Family,

It was amazing to have known Barbie, such a special person in all our lives. Our sincere condolences - Keith and Lynnea. - Keith Alimonti
Jun 02, 2023
What a courageous and outrageously positive person was Barbie. This huge collection of messages of condolence reinforces her impact on so many in our community. She has fought health challenges with determination and has now earned sweet rest. To her family, my sincere sympathy and comfort in your loss. - Mickey Patryluk
Jun 01, 2023
Dear Ken and Family,

Our deepest condolences to you all. We have fond memories of Barbie during our time in Joe Rich. We worked with her when the ladies in Joe Rich would order from the Bulk stores and then package our goods all together. She was so pleasant to spend time with. RIP Barbie

Randy&Kim Spencer - Kim Spencer
May 31, 2023
Ken and family

Our sincere condolences for the loss of your beautiful wife and mother

Barbie was such a wonderful contributor to this community and to everyone she new. Her presence will be missed by everyone she came in contact with but she will never be forgotten.

Her love for life and for others lit up everyone around her

Our thoughts are with you.

Terry and Gillian Johnston - Terry Johnston
May 31, 2023
My sincere condolences to the Ross Family! Barbie was a very special lady! Loved her to pieces.She was such a fashion icon with her million pairs of outstanding eye glasses. She will always be remembered and missed dearly. Rip Barbie. Cheryl Brewster
May 31, 2023
Ken and family. My heart is filled with love and my eyes are filled with tears over the loss of Barbie. She had a profound impact on my life and the entire Stringer family. She was the epitome of JOY AND LOVE. I will miss her.

John Stringer - John Stringer
May 31, 2023

Dear KR and the Ross Clan and Bob and the Elliott Clan:

We are so saddened by this news. We met back in the '60s, so many good times and memories. Best wedding reception ever: on the Fintry Queen, stuck on the S. side of the bridge which wouldn't open. Fun, fun, fun!, but not for Jack funding the bar tab. LOL. KR & Barbie were model parents in Joe Rich, raising 4 awesome young men and somehow always having time for friends: the barn, the log home, skating parties, open door policy...they didn't know they were virtual mentors to me over the years...always instinctively knowing what to do, when, what to say with appropriate timing. Thank you! Fashion shows: Barbie and Diane somehow got me to model (way out of my comfort zone), but when Barbie called, no was not an option. We looked after the cottage till she and KR were ready to make it their Beach House home. It was the site of the best pig roast party we ever got to host. We always admired Barbie's energy and determination in all that she undertook and always excelled at. She was very outgoing, personable, and loving; a people person with incredibly artistic skills and great generosity. Even last Fall as we were planning to visit Kelowna before leaving the country again, she insisted we be at the Beach House and would have been prepared to host a BBQ, despite all the health battles she had so bravely endured over the last few years! We are grateful for the time shared last October and also grateful we will get to remotely attend Barbie's celebration of life. Oh Barbie, just in case nobody's told you... ya done good Gal! RIP Barbie Dean the Beauty Queen. KR and family, you're in our thoughts every day.

Love always, Fish & Francine - Al Fisher & Francine Côté
May 30, 2023
Ken & Family,

So sorry for your loss.

Our sincere condolences.

Dale & Lynn Armeneau
May 30, 2023
Dear Ken and family

We are so sorry to hear of Barbie's passing. She was a special person and will be missed by so many. She added a special level of life and joy to everyone at KHS/KSS.

Ken and Pam Wilson - Ken Wilson
May 30, 2023
My sincere condolences to you Ken and family.Barbie was one of a kind,a loving mother and friend.She will be missed by all who knew her. - Annie Ritchie
May 30, 2023
Once you met her…you’d never forget her…part of Kelowna that’s for sure…condolences to all family and friends…she will be remembered forever…

Sandi Crawshaw - Sandi Crawshaw
May 30, 2023
Dear Ken and family,

Our hearts go out to you at this sad time with hopes that you can find some happiness in all the wonderful memories you have of life with Barbie. She left a lasting impression on all who knew her and was truly one of a kind.

With love from Tom & Susan Glendinning

- Susan Glendinning
May 29, 2023
Remembering Barbie from when she had her boys on 3West at KGH. She definitely was the “Queen”, holding court in her room. We (the nurses) who were caring for her loved her wonderful outgoing personality, she had us laughing and sharing in her joy of becoming a Mom again. She always remembered us when we would see her years later. With deepest sympathy for your loss. Wendy - Wendy Crawford
May 29, 2023
This is ironic to a degree. We spent much of our childish years together in the neighbourhood from 1 yr to 8 when my family moved to Bernard Ave which seemed like another world from Ethel to Burn. Over the years we saw each other occasionally and reminisced about our past. I won't go into our past with Nobby Wilderman not in the same room.

Over the many years I was fortunate to meet your wife, see your new home in Joe Riche and Barbie. Today, as I read the responses to Barbie's passing, I go back in my past of about 10 years ago when my wife went thru the same events. I am sorry that you and your family must go thru this, but you will never forget her..... forever. - Monty Hughes
May 29, 2023
To the Ross family & extended family,

So sorry for your loss. Barbie was an amazing woman who would light up any room! I'm so glad I had the pleasure of knowing her. Hold those special memories close to your hearts.

Sincelerly,

Cheryl McNaughton - Cheryl McNaughton
May 29, 2023
Ken and family,

So very sorry to hear of Barbie’s passing. Our sincere condolences for your loss.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Greg and Leslie McClelland -
May 29, 2023
Ken and boys,

We were very sad to hear of Barbie’s passing! She was one of those genuinely nice people, always smiling! Our heartfelt condolences to you all!

Julia and Kent Hough - Julia Hough
May 29, 2023
Deepest condolences from our family to yours. - Mark Spoljaric
May 28, 2023
To Ken and family

Barbie was so socialble and a force of positivity and fun. Kelowna has lost one of its great characters.

My condolences

Doug Cameron - Doug Cameron
May 28, 2023
Dear Ken, Ryan, Mike, John, Steven and Family,

Mrs. Ross (Barbie) is a legend. As a child growing up in Rutland - I was one of the lucky children who was honoured to know her through the Kelowna Aqua Jets, Rutland Youth Soccer and life.

Mrs. Ross brought an amazing level of positivity to a room and always made people feel welcomed. I have fond memories of Mrs. Ross - her smile, her fashion BUT especially her eye glasses. I have no idea how many pairs she owned but it seemed she had a pair for every day of the year.

I will forever remember her smile and her hugs. I had not seen Mrs. Ross in many years and I was walking downtown. Mrs. Ross was with Mr. Ross and the Kitsch Family and I suddenly heard my name being yelled from across the road. I looked over and it was Mrs. Ross waving me over - this warmed my heart and I crossed the road to open arms of a hug.

Remember all the good times - she definitely had a well lived life.

- Marie (Ryder) Howell
May 28, 2023
Ken and Family

What a gal! what a force to be reckoned with-what a ball of energy!Barbie will be missed by all, but more so by anyone lucky enough to call her friend!

Lynn Archibald - lynn Archibald
May 28, 2023
Ken and Family,

We are saddened to learn of Barbie's passing. We have such fond memories of the fun times when the kids were swimming with the Aquajets. You are in our thoughts and prayers. - David and Joan Gould
May 28, 2023
Dear Kenny and all your Family: The mold was broken when they made Barbie. She was one of a kind. We have been Friends for well over 50 years. Her sense of Family and Friends was something to admire and marvel at. Not to mention all her Community involvement. I am so grateful that my sister Corry and I were able to see her prior to her passing. The belly laughs we had will be remembered forever as will our Queen Bee. Sending much love to you all. - Patti Jennens
May 28, 2023
Our deepest condolences to your family. Barbie was like a ray of sunshine in any room she entered. We will always remember her with a smile.Rick and LiseAnne Doiron
May 28, 2023
Ken & family, we are so sorry to hear of Barbie's passing. We remember her smile and friendly manner at KSS. Years later Barbie invited Pat Russell and I over for coffee to their Joe Riche home and she was still the happy, welcoming Barbie I had remembered....she will be missed, - Judy (Malen) & Ken Miletto
May 28, 2023
This is a tremendous "salute" to Barbie's memory. She was an amazing person, small in stature but "larger than life". She was a star at KSS and I will remember her for our Grad reunions and all her efforts to make sure everyone had a good time. I remember her boys from my days at Black Mountain when I was a teacher and she was a mom there. May she rest in peace. Her star will always shine. - Judy (Farris) Johnson
May 28, 2023
Dear Mike, Ken and Family - we met you all in our Aqua Jet years, and right away, we knew Barbie was special - a breath of fresh air who had boundless energy! She will be missed by so many...please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Roland and Susan - Susan Bauhart
May 28, 2023
Ken and family

Deepest condolences at this very diffuct time. Barbie was always so passionate in all that she did. A force to be recond with vibrant and lively. Gone but never forgotten. Barbie will live on in the hearts of many.

Love n hugs

Carol Hansen - Carol Hansen
May 28, 2023
Dear Ken and family

We were so very sorry to hear of Barbies passing. Our thoughts are with you and hope you cherish all the fond memories that you have.

Larry and Wendy Keating - Wendy Keating
May 27, 2023
Dear Ken and Boys

I was so sorry to hear of Barbies passing ! She was a very special lady ! I remember her fondly from the days that her and Ken and the boys lived in Joe Rich. On occasion I used to come and babysit the boys . I remember Barbie was always so kind and full of life . She just sparkled in all that she did . She will be missed by so many people that knew her . The heavens gained a very vibrant, special angel the day that she left earth . May she rest in peace ! - Jean Philpott
May 27, 2023
So very sorry for your loss!

Norene Loseth

Terrance Penny - Norene
May 27, 2023
Dear Ken, Ryan, Mike, John, Steven, and all close friends and family members, I just want to express my deepest sympathy to all of you for such a huge loss to your family and all who knew and loved Barbie. You all left many memories of your time as neighbours in Joe Rich and I am always delighted every time I see any of you out and about in Kelowna. Knowing your Mom, she left detailed instructions about how to move on in her absence, but of course all of her life long lessons will always be with you to guide you. Thinking of all of you and sending loving thoughts your way as you cope with such a loss, Sincerely, - Joanne Beaulieu
May 27, 2023
To the whole Ross family, our deepest condolences! Only time can heal such a void. We embrace you all with love and hugs. Bryan and Judy Proskiw.
May 27, 2023
We were sorry to hear about Barbie. In years gone by when I would have a chat with her she was always a burst of sunshine and positive energy. The tributes and pictures on her website are so heartwarming. Take care, Don and Ina Kroschinsky - Don and Ina Kroschinsky
May 27, 2023
Ken and Family,

So very sorry to hear of the passing of Barbie. I will be dedicating this week's column, May 31/2023 to her. So sorry I will not be able to make the service as we have council on Monday's. If you need anything please let us know.

Maxine & Chris DeHart

- Maxine DeHart
May 27, 2023
We are so sorry to learn of this sad news. We remember Barbie as such a vibrant personality during the years that your Ryan and our Ryan were teenage friends. Our sincere condolences.

Norm and Lucille Mawhinney
May 27, 2023
Ken & family, So sorry for your loss. There is no duplicating Barbie’s bubbly nature. She will be missed by many. Hugh & Linda Mervyn - Hugh & Linda
May 27, 2023
Our deepest condolences to Ken and family from both myself and my sister Val. Went to school with Barbie. You will be missed

Trish Shaw. nee Upton and Val Hermiston, nee Upton - Trish Shaw
May 27, 2023
Ken and family..this is such a sad time for all of us. Our families have been connected thru the years with so many fun memories ..from the imperial apartment days , teen town and KSS back in the day. Christmas with all the kids at the Van Hees home on Thacker drive. Barbie will be loved and in our hearts forever. Dirk and Candy - Candy and Dirk Van Hees
May 27, 2023
Dear Ken and family

Our thoughts and prayers are withbyou at this difficult time. Although the miles separated us as cousins you were often in our thoughts. Unfortunately the wildfires keot us from going to Kelwona the last 2 years when we did make it as far as Edmonton and I truly wishes we could have joined you and Barbie then. I will cherish our time at the Elliott reunión in 2014 in Bieseker and I know my late mother Beryl enjoyed ever minute of said reunión. Family is so precious. Barbie was full of fun and spirit. She will be truly missed.

Sincerely

Sherry and Denis Vaillancourt nee McLaughlin - Sherry Vaillancourt
May 27, 2023
I remember Barbie as a fun loving and enthusiastic parent when I taught at RSS! A treasure! - Anne Mavkat
May 27, 2023
Ken and family,

Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your dear wife Barbie,mother,and grandma.

Barbie will be missed by her many friends and all who knew her.Rest in peace my friend.

Madelene and Ken Hryciw - Ken and Madelene Hryciw
May 27, 2023
Sincere condolences to Barbie’s family. We were summertime friends at Buffalo Lake and have fond memories. Barbie was usually in charge and we followed along. It is wonderful to read her life story. Treasure her memory and her love for each of you. - Craig Beesley, Sherwood Park, AB
May 27, 2023
Condolences to the Ross family. Barbie was an inspiration to everyone that knew her and will be missed by all. She was a very special person. - Clara Poitras
May 27, 2023
Dear

Ken and family. I am so sorry to hear of Barbie’s passing. She certainly was an icon in Kelowna and will truly be missed. Sincere condolences.

Linda Mitchell - Linda Mitchell
May 27, 2023
Ken, we are so sorry for your loss. Barbie was a high-spirited woman like no other.. We retain areas of our home designed and decorated by her 13 years ago. We regret we will be unavoidably out of town next week and will miss her Celebration of Life. And what a celebration she made of life!

Keith and Debbie MacMillan - Keith MacMillan
May 27, 2023
Sorry to hear of Barbie's passing. She will be missed by all who knew her. She will be welcomed with love in her new home with Heavenly Father. - Brent Przybille
May 26, 2023
You were a force Barbie! Gymnastics, fashion shows, fireman’s balls, taking five girdles off before going to bed, always opinionated, and always a friend. We will miss you! Sincere condolences to Ken and boys and their families! Darlene ramsay.
May 26, 2023
Barbie had a special magic of enabling all those she came in contact with to feel special. The Valley and will continue to shine: she has left behind her a better place because of her time here. So sorry for the emptiness left in her wake. Seek to fill that space with the warmth that Barbie embodied. She truly was a special person who is gone too soon. Much love to all who were very close.

Edith and family - Edith Rozsa
May 26, 2023
Dear Ken, Ryan, Michael, John, Steven and family:

Please know you're surrounded by much love from friends and family!

We're all going to miss our Queen Bee Barbie - such a zest for life and so full of vibrant love to everyone.

Barbie was the heartbeat of our Elliott family (both in Kelowna and Moose Jaw)

Cousin Barbie was my idol and mentor -- I'm going to miss her so much!

We're all sharing in your sadness as you remember and honour Barbie.

Brother Bill and I will certainly attend Barbie's funeral.

Sending comforting hugs your way,

With our deepest sympathy,

The Elliott family in Moose Jaw -- Auntie Thelma, Patty, Bill, Donna & kids - the Elliott family, Moose Jaw
May 26, 2023
I'm so sorry for your loss Ken and family. After the KSS reunion a few years ago, Barbie and I planned to get together but life got in the way. For that I am truly sorry. She was a wonderful person. - Linda Reid
May 26, 2023
Ken and Families. So saddened to hear of Barbie passing . She was such a bright and

Vibrant person which showed in everything she accomplished, we always enjoyed our connection with you both. Our deepest sympathies to you and your Family

Norm/Ethel Robidoux - Ethel Robidoux
May 26, 2023
I met this "dynamic" woman years ago through an old friend, Barbie was a whirlwind , full of ideas and more spunk than anyone I ever met. She was a wonderful person and she and Diane did so much fun stuff together that made me envious! Fashion was not my thing but It sure was for them and they did it with a real flair.

My sincere condolences to her family.

- Trudy Hurst
May 26, 2023
Dear Ross family, even though you moved into Kelowna 23 years ago the loss of Barbie is also a huge loss to the Joe Rich valley. Our deepest condolences. - The Weddell family
May 26, 2023
Ken and boys, we are so sorry to hear of Barbie passing. She made all are reunion meetings so much fun. Thinking of you.

Bev, Lindsey and Lee Ivans - Bev ivans
May 26, 2023
Our sincere sympathy and condolences Ken to you and your family on Barbies passing. So sorry for your loss - Mel & Sharon Zummack
May 26, 2023
Ken and family,

We always enjoyed our times with Barbie and Ken. They hosted some memorable get togethers for our forestry gang over the years. Barbie was a remarkable person and a good friend, and she demonstrated amazing courage while battling her failing health.

RIP

Paul & Louise

- Paul MacNamara
May 26, 2023
Dear Kenny and family...Barbie brought inspiration to us all...She loving shared her talent and compliments freely on all the projects we did together..Be it Midtown, Blacksmith Lodge at Big White, and finally her creativity and expertise with our beautiful home on Okanagan Lake. Loved your visit to see the Airstream project too

We will truly "miss" that little spark! and her unconditional positivity which was strongest trait! Truly glad we were able to chat a few weeks ago Our thoughts are with you all Jerry and Beth - Jerry and Elizabeth Scherle
May 26, 2023
Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you all. Barbie was such a special person and welcomed us into her life. I am thankful I got to know her - Susan Hampson
May 26, 2023
Sending our deepest condolences to you Ken and your family. Thinking of you all. - Earl and Cheryl Irwin
May 26, 2023
Barbie was such a dynamo. Volunteering, for most of us, didn’t understand the question….but Barbie always understood the question & got it done! The day she arrived in Kelowna, the lights shone a little brighter, her fashion sense, and design style was always on….

Kenny and family, my condolences, to all….Barbie will be missed, but remembered, and much loved by so many in the community….

Love Dave & Marilyn - DS
May 26, 2023
Nothing but amazing memories of Barbie. We shared a locker at KSS and she added so much to my high school memories. So much fun when our boys were with Aqua

Jets and played football together. Your positive impact on Kelowna and those who met you will never be forgotten. Condolences to all of her family. - Lynn Powell
May 26, 2023
Our sincere condolences to Ken and the boys and families.

Joe Keeley and Vickie Barron - Vickie Barron & Joe Keeley
May 26, 2023
Such a sad time for the entire family … sending condolences for such a vibrant woman! Live love laugh … and keep her memory alive ! - Lynn Simpson
May 26, 2023
Barbie! One of a beautiful kind! Though it's been a long time, I feel blessed to have known her. My heart and sympathy to you, Ken and family and all that have loved and will miss her.

- Cheryl Taiji
May 26, 2023
Condolences Ken and family for your loss.

Bruce Unrau and Vicki Moore
May 26, 2023
Ken and family

I never met anybody like you and Barbie: loving and giving unconditionally. My heart aches with you. The heavens must be far open to welcome this very special angel. With all my love Hilla Jaeckel - Hilla Jaeckel
May 26, 2023
Ken & boys and all of the Elliott and Ross families. There are no words to express the sorrow felt by so many people that were part of Barbie’s life. A true inspiration for everyone that new her. I have been blessed all 58 years that I have known her. Thoughts and prayers to everyone . - Barry Carter
May 26, 2023
Ken and all family members

Barbie was as many have said "special" as we all knew it when she was in the room. We worked on many of the projects she had a hand in over the nearly 40 years of knowing her.

Take solace in knowing that she did make a difference and left this world a better place with the touch of "Barbie".

Condolence to all, keep your chins up and cherish the many memories. - David Langton
May 26, 2023
My dear Kenny, it seems like only yesterday that you, Barbie, Keith and I were out playing in the Okanagan. Time passes but what a wonderful life the two of you have had. Your generosity every time I arrived in Kelowna made me feel that I was part of your family. I will not arrive in Kelowna in time for the celebration of life - and what a life Barbie had - but will see you in the summer

With love

Janet Molen - Janet Molen
May 26, 2023
Ken and Family,

My sincere condolences for your loss. - Don Fraser
May 26, 2023
Oh Ken, our thoughts are with you in your loss of Barbie and also with you Ryan, Mike, John and Steven in the loss of your Mother. May you all find some comfort in knowing how much others care. Barbie's strength of character, dignity, tenacity and positivity these last few years has been a testament to us all. She fought the good fight and now may she rest in peace and may your hearts slowly heal, remembering all the good times you all shared. - Gerry Irwin and Gwyneth Barichello
May 26, 2023
Ken,Boys and families

So very sorry for your loss..Barbie was a amazing lady for sure.. she will be missed..our thoughts and prayers to you all at this most difficult time ..

Our deepest sympathy

Chris and Bev Reiswig
May 26, 2023
To KEN AND FAMILY

To Ken and family,

It was so deeply disappointing to hear of Barbie's passing. She was a shining star in every aspect of her life. She gave so much to so many. Unforgettable lady!

- Al and Angie Kirschner
May 26, 2023
Ken and family, Barbie was a beautiful , amazing force. A whirlwind of light. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. - Pam Stapleton
May 26, 2023
To Barbie’s family

I did numerous fashion shows for Barbie and Dianne back in the 80’s. She was so fun and Vibrant! I didn’t personally know much about her. While I’m sad she has passed, her obituary was a great read of a colourful woman.

Condolences,

Jennifer Simms
May 26, 2023
This is a soul that will brighten the skies from heaven. I have never seen her without a smile in the last 30 years. - Colleen Dickson Eccott
May 26, 2023
Ken and family,

It is with a heavy heart to say, " see you later sweet soul."

With deepest condolences to all of you.

Sincerely,

Mario & Berbie - Berbie Ciancone
May 26, 2023
The Barbie smile. It's the best. Ken and family, we send our love and support as we remember Barbie's incredible energy and love for her family and friends. Our sincere condolences to each of you; we share your heartache. The queenbee website is a complete joy to read through. The photos reflecting on Barbie's life are extra special. She was always happy.

Moose and Rhonda
May 26, 2023
Ken and family please accept our most heartfelt condolences. We will miss our Ms. Bee so very much. She was such a bright star and we were so very grateful to have her in our lives and call her friend. We appreciated. Her incredible energy and insights into decor and fashion and really enjoyed working with her when she decorated Ron's dental office. Barbie was loved and admired by everyone that were fortunate enough to know her and a true blue friend. - Lane and Ron Shupe
May 26, 2023
Ken and family I am sorry to hear of your loss - Jack Campos
May 26, 2023
So sorry Ken and family for your loss. Barbie’s legacy reaches every corner of Kelowna. From Events, decor, Mary Kay, Super Mom of 4 busy boys, wife, Grandma, Aunty and great friend to so many.. Barbie is a legend. We are all better for having known her and will share our smiles to others, as she shared hers to all.

Judy and John Johnston
May 26, 2023
to Ken and family;

Sorry to hear of your loss. Wanted you know that I am thinking of you and your family at this difficult time!

Take care.

Dean Loverin - dean loverin
May 26, 2023
Ken and family. Our deepest sympathy in the loss of Barbie. She was such a fun filled beautiful soul. Our hearts go out to you and your family.

Don and Sheila Kennedy
May 26, 2023
Dear Ken and Family, Condolences and love to all of you. Barbies beautiful happy spirit of love will be with all of us.

Love Marie Clark Orring
May 26, 2023
Ken and family,

I am truly sorry for your loss. Barbie had such a beautiful and positive personality. She put the fun into everything in which she was involved. For me especially it was our high school reunions. She will be sadly missed, but she has left you a myriad of the best memories. - Maureen Mieras (Edwards)
May 26, 2023
Barbie's incredible spirit & energy will live on in our memories. With her passing, we share your sadness and send our love and sincere condolences to Kenny, family, and friends.

Robert & Chris Funk - Christine Funk
May 26, 2023
Dear Ken and family

Our deepest condolences. Barbie was such a fun loving person and so accomplished. Even though the many miles separated us your family was often in our thoughts. Sending you healing prayers at this difficult time. RIP my dear cousin - Sherry (McLaughlin) and Denis Vaillancourt
May 25, 2023
Dear Ken and and your family.So sorry to hear of Barbie's passing.She was a special person who will be missed by a lot of people.Our heartfelt Condolences to you Ken and the rest of the family.Our thoughts and Prayers are with you.May She Rest in Peace.

Nick and Arlene Papov - Nick Papov
May 25, 2023
We are all so so sorry to learn of Barbie's passing. We always enjoyed our visits with her and the stories she shared. She will be so missed by all those who knew her.

Linda and staff at olive & elle - Linda Povarchook
May 25, 2023
Barbie made Kelowna a better place by her presence here. She touched many people by her love, warmth and welcoming personality. I am honoured to have been one of the recipients. She was the glue that held the 67/68 reunion committee together and we are in her debt.

While I am saddened by her passing I am basking in the glow of a life well lived. I raise a glass.

My condolences to Ken, Mike and the family. Thank you for sharing Barbie with us. - Don Knox
May 25, 2023
I worked with Barbie on several projects. She was a pleasure to work with. My condolences to all the family - Ray Mitchell
May 25, 2023
Ken and family I am sorry to hear of your loss.

Keith - Keith Grange
May 25, 2023
My sincere condolences to Barbie's family. It is hard to believe such a vibrant, vivacious, lovely lady has left us. Fly free sweet soul.

Barbara Roberts - Barbara Roberts
May 25, 2023
My condolences to Ken and family, especially John who is such a good friend of my boy Jay. Ken and Barbie always treated him like one of their own. Barbie was a force - I well remember "Barbie Ross Fashion Shows", the antique shop in Joe Rich, Barbies Dad Jack and the house on Manhattan. - Mike Fredrickson
May 25, 2023
We will always remember Barbie, Ken and the boys on the hill in the Joe Rich as our best neighbours in 80s. She was a pure human being in every way.

With sincere condolences to her family from

Fred van der Werf and Family - Fred van der Werf
May 25, 2023
So sorry for your loss Barbie was a beautiful soul. I will miss her smile and chats.

Mike and Roosje Harman
May 25, 2023
Dear Ken and boys & families.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you journey this path of grieving for Barbi.

Norma (Morrison) Southward
May 25, 2023
Barbie was indeed a dynamo of activity and creativity. Condolences to her whole family but especially Michael and Jon whom I knew from school. Celebrate a life well lived. Jim Oakes
May 25, 2023
Dear Ken and Families. Our dearest sympathies. So saddened to hear of Barbie

Recent passing. Always enjoyed our connections. She always added life to

To a room with her design and colour. - Norm,Ethel Robidoux
May 25, 2023
I first met Barbie when I was 18 years old, and what a "Dynamo!" Her Zest for Life, Love for her Family, and unwavering Loyalty to her Friends left an indelible impression on my heart that has stayed with me forever. Thank you Barbie for sharing your compassion, and teaching us how to embrace life. My thoughts and prayers are with Barbie's family. - Frances Surtees - San Diego
May 25, 2023
Ken and families. So sorry for your loss,Barbie will be missed by anyone who had the pleasure of meeting her. Her electric personality brought a light to everyone, no matter the occasion . - Art and Jody Hayes
May 25, 2023
Dear Kenny & Family, Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved Wife & Mother. We will cherish all the memories of the great High School Reunion parties.. Barbie was the best Hostess !! Terry Thomson & Linda Van Den Elzen. - Terry Thomson
May 25, 2023
Barbie was special

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Domenic and Lina Rampone - Domenic Rampone
May 25, 2023
Dear Ken and family we are so sorry to hear of Barbie passing know that we are thinking of you and your family.NOBBY Gen Wildemann - NOBBY Gen Wildemann
May 25, 2023
What an amazing tribute! Barbie was an amazing person that will be missed dearly. She was instrumental at my wedding, helping get everyone get ready and helping me plan Mom's (Donna) 50th birthday party. Her energy and vibrancy was nothing short of glorious. My heart goes out to all of you that she loved so dearly. - Kyndree Bennett
May 25, 2023
To the Ross Family, my sincere condolences on your loss. I went to school with the Ryan and coached soccer to Steven. I got to know Ken more through Forestry, buy my run ins with Barbie throughout the boys lives and at Costco were always filled with laughter and teasing. She was a woman full of colors and light, she will be missed by many. My heart goes out to all of you, condolences again, Noni Husch
May 25, 2023
To the Ross family -- I remember Barbie as the "Spark" in Sparkle -- the moment you met her, you knew you would never forget her. She was always positive, cheery and effervescent, the belle of the ball, the love of Ken's life. We will miss her presence and we send sympathy to all those who knew and loved her. - Marci Paynter
May 25, 2023
Ken and family, our sincere condolences. Barbie was a true friend and lighting Kelowna,. May she Rest In Peace, she will be missed.

Dennis and Gwen
May 25, 2023
beautiful tribute, but the tears are flowing once again. Missing you already!! You were a great friend and I will cherish our memories!! Love and Miss you Barbie! Sharron - Sharron Cartier
May 25, 2023
Ken my heart goes out to you pal Barbie will be missed by all she always had time for every one and never a bad thought of any i will always hold a spot in my heart for her take care R.I.P. Don Favell - Don Favell
May 25, 2023
Ken & Family,

So sorry for your loss. Barbie was a very talented and special person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Robert & Carnation St. Amand - Carnation St. Amand