Success, failure 3" apart

The amount of data we process is astounding. 

Apparently, our brains process 400 billion bits of information per second, but we are only consciously aware of about 2,000 of those.

In other words, the brain, to a large extent is on autopilot.

One of my habits, which helps me, is to live a life as a creature of habit. I never randomly put my wallet or cellphone somewhere,

I habitually leave them in the same spot. My rationale is that I can reduce the amount of bits being processed in my brain if I don't have to think about where my wallet or keys are, for example.

So the other day I was perplexed when I arrived at my office without my keys.

My wife had borrowed my car, so I left the house driving hers. My car key ring has a very large bright orange key tag on it that cannot be missed, so it is very easy to identify from quite a distance.

I packed my computer walked out to my hallway and grabbed the keys to her car subconsciously. To give some context, I have a key rack with four hooks on it and they are approximately three inches apart.

I habitually use the one on the right to hang my keys — two cars and motorbike. 

I took my key for her car, left for the office and arrived empty handed in terms of a door key. I was locked out.

I quickly texted her and expressed my own frustration at forgetting to ask her to take her own car key for my car because I was now locked out of my office.

I quickly received a returned text saying she did not take my keys.

Some relief I suppose. It was a quick drive home, but what perplexed me was why, if my keys were there did I not take them.

The answer was revealed as soon as I walked in the door.

Someone had moved keys around and my car key was on the second hook, not the first one. It was three inches out of place.

What fascinates me is that my brain is so wired to do things automatically it had not registered that the keys were on the next hook along. 

So there you have it, in my world, the difference between success and failure is about three inches.

It is a habit that serves me well on expeditions or in races. 

In events where I need to reserve brain power for the tasks at hand I have a very definite set of habits that help me focus on the objective. Otherwise, I would waste energy looking for something because I did not know where it was. 

The process works for me, until someone messes with my system, but as you can see, it sets me up for the occasional frustration too if my autopilot is not working correctly.


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Mark has been an entrepreneur for over forty years. His experience spans many commercial sectors and aspects of business. He was one of the youngest people to be appointed as a Fellow of the prestigious Institute of Sales and Marketing Management before he left the UK in 1988.

His column focuses on ways we can improve on success in our lives. Whether it is business, relationships, or health, Mark has a well-rounded perspective on how to stay focused for growth and development.

His influences come from the various travels he undertakes as an adventurer, philanthropist and keynote speaker. More information can be found on Mark at his website www.markjenningsbates.com

He is a Venture Partner with www.DutchOracle.com a global Alternative Investment company.

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