LAVIGNE, Lori Renee

It is with great sadness that the family of Lori Renee Lavigne of Calgary announce her sudden passing in Montana on December 30, 2011.

Lori was born on January 31, 1978 in Kelowna where she grew up. She also lived in Inuvik, Vancouver and lastly Calgary. She leaves to mourn her parents, Elaine and David Shipclark and Rene and Sheila Lavigne, both of Kelowna. Also missing her deeply are her sisters, April, Karen (Kurt), Debbie, Caroline (Csaba) and Rhonda (Ron) and very special nieces and nephews, Genevieve, Natasha, Naomi, Jordan, Bryana, Nolan and Ty. Very special friend Michael Ilk and grandparents Jean Lavigne of Kelowna and Lorne & Edith Klassen of Kindersley, Sask. also will miss her deeply. Numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and many, many friends will also miss her. She was predeceased by her Grandparent’s Edward Lavigne and Carl & Jean Shipclark. Also waiting for her in heaven will be her sister Lainie and her beloved cat Mesa.

A Memorial Service will be held on Wednesday, January 4, 2012 at First Lutheran Church, 4091 Lakeshore Road, Kelowna, BC. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Alzheimer’s Society in memory of her grandfathers.

• Deeply sad news. My thoughts are with Lori's family and those close to her. Valerie Woolvett Jan 1, 2012
• David and Elaine, Our deepest sympathy to you and your families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  Bryce and Sylvia Jan 1, 2012
• Too young and too soon and our deepest sympathies to Elaine, David, April, Lorne, Edith and all the rest of the family. We are heart-broken to hear the news. Love and *hugs* to you all.
  Love Joe & Carole Jan 1, 2012
• I only met Lori 10 months ago when I started working for ReidBuilt Homes in Calgary but I truly never saw her in a bad mood. She laughed easily and often showed me photos of her obviously loved cat. Her passing has been a huge shock and I will always have happy memories of her. God Bless. Chris Jan 1, 2012
• My very deepest condolences to all of Lori's friends and family. Lori's smile lit up a room like not many can. I had the pleasure of seeing this often at the office of ReidBuilt Homes, she was a very lovely person and will be deeply missed. Karen Jan 1, 2012
• Wonderful Lori Lavigne. A beautiful person who offered so much to everyone around her. I am an old friend of Lori's from way back in high school. She taught me so much--so much about generosity, kindness and freedom! Thank you for being a part of my life Lori. To her family, my deepest condolences. A thank you to them for shaping such a beautiful spirit. ~Alya Ramadan Jan 1, 2012
• David and Elaine, Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you deal
  with this great loss. May God grant comfort and peace for you and
  the entire family.
  Ron and Leona Jan 2, 2012
• So very sorry for your loss, our hearts go out to all of Lori's family and friends. Donna and Charles Parkhurst. Jan 2, 2012
• So sorry to hear about Lori. We were vacationing in Montana at the same time. I always enjoyed talking to Lori at the office at Reid Built. I will truly miss her smile. Please accept our heartfelt condolences for this tragic loss. Rudy and Linda Jan 2, 2012
• Dave and Elaine we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter.
  Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.
  Bob and Pat Thompson Jan 2, 2012
• The first time I met Lori was when I was 16. She was a friend of my girlfriend at the time. I always remember first meeting her because my girlfriend's brother had put gum in my hair and Lori spent an hour or more washing my hair in the sink and combing out the gum. Many years later I moved to Vancouver and Lori and Deidra were my roommates. They were so kind and generous and made me feel like I had a new home in Vancouver. We used to drink wine on the porch and go dancing at 80's night at Luv Affair on Thursday nights. The last time I saw her, Lori made stuffed peppers for Deidra and I at her new apartment after we had all moved out of our "haunted house". I haven't seen her in years now. The things I will remember most about Lori are her love of music, how she could sew her own amazing clothes and how she was a truly caring person. I'm so sorry for your loss. -Chad Greenway Jan 2, 2012
• Rene and Sheila and Lori's family, We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. May your memories comfort you now and in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
  Richard and Verna Michel Jan 2, 2012
• So very sorry for the loss of your cherished child.
  Sandy Ferris Jan 2, 2012
• I can say that Lori was one of my best friends. So many important experimental music records and genre films that make up a big part of my present career I listened to, collected, and watched first with Lori. Those days in Kelowna were so much fun and a major developmental period for both of us. My deepest condolences. Sam McKinlay Jan 2, 2012
• My deepest condolences to Lori's family. I hung out with Lori back in high school 8-12 at KLO, I remember looking up to her and she introduced me to some cool music I never would have heard, we had gone to some fun gigs together. She was always uplifting to be around and had a peaceful way about her and she respected people, I think the last time I saw Lori was in Vancouver she was with Deidra, Chad, and a couple others, we ate at Denny's early one morning and I felt so great to see Lori again after grad I remember what she was wearing because she had such a great fashion sense and a cool furniture. She made me feel so at home at her new apartment. Lori, thank you for your friendship, peacefulness, and love ....an old friend Jenny Zahara Beston. Jan 2, 2012
• So sorry for the loss of your daughter.
  Barb Willis Jan 2, 2012
• Dear Dave and Elaine, Nancy and I are praying that our Lord will help you and your family get through this difficult time. Our sincere condolences, Nick and Nancy Imthorn. Jan 2, 2012
• Rene and Sheila and Lori's family, We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. May your memories comfort you now and in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
  Richard and Verna Michel Jan 2, 2012
• My deepest condolences go out to the Lavigne family. I had the pleasure of meeting Lori through Reidbuilt. Her passing is such a huge shock. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends at this time. Jennifer Jan 2, 2012
• I was Lori's prom date, as well as one of Lori's closest friends since high school. I would say that Lori was probably the most special female friend that I've ever had in my life. She was always there for me no matter what and we shared so many amazing times together that I wouldn't even know where to begin. In my life, I was never one for having too many female friends.. yet Lori was an exception. Simply because it was impossible to stay away from her charm, her wit, her presence, and her ability to be the perfect friend. I can't believe she's gone, and it crushes me every time I think about it. She truly is the hardest person that I've ever had to say goodbye to.
  
  Forever in my heart Lori - Mike Mckinlay Jan 3, 2012
• My deepest condolences to Lori's family and friends. I was blessed to have had the opportunity to become close to Lori over the past year, both personally and professionally. She was certainly one of the sweetest and truly dedicated ladies I have had the pleasure of working with.
  
  I will deeply miss her.
  
  Brenda, Calgary Jan 3, 2012
• I am really not sure what to say, except we miss you already. Thank you for sharing your time with us.
  
  George Maggie and Mollie Jan 3, 2012
• David and Elaine,
  
  No words in the world can ease your pain at this time. Please know that I am so sorry for your loss.
  
  Sue Cmolik Jan 3, 2012
• Although I haven't been home to see you in many years, I miss you Lori so much, with all my heart,
  
  Much love, your sister Deborah Jan 3, 2012
• David & Elaine,
  
  I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. Please know that my prayers are with you at this extremely difficult time.
  
  Michele Blinn
  
  Jan 3, 2012
• I am so sorry for the loss to all of us. I had worked with Lori for over 10 years and had always enjoyed her welcoming personality. We are all going to miss her so much. Our condolences to Lori's family.
  
  Bruce & Elaine Isherwood Jan 3, 2012
• Elaine, David and Michael,
  
  I am so so sorry for your loss, Lori was such an amazing, generous person. I had the pleasure of spending a lot of time with her because she was the love of my brother's life. She will be forever cherished in my family's hearts and I hope the memories of Lori will help you three find closure.
  
  Thank you for sharing your perfect Lu with Mike, Jaxson, Jorja and I. Jan 3, 2012
• So very sorry David and Elaine...such a terrible loss for all,
  
  Theresa Jan 3, 2012
• David and Elaine:
  
  I was saddened to hear your shocking and painful news.
  
  Fortunately, your enjoyable memories of Lori should allow you to forever remember her as the lovely person that she was.
  
  Bob Kueng Jan 3, 2012
• I'm LORI'S LOVE. Since you have been gone I am at such a loss. We have been through a lot, all of which made us stronger and love each other more madly then I even knew possible. We had finally made it and we were ready to take on anything together. I miss everything about you. I LOVE YOU LORI. MY LU LU.
  
  MICHAEL Jan 3, 2012
• David & Elaine:
  
  Although no words can adequately help ease the loss and pain you bear, just know that you are very close in our thoughts and prayers.
  
  ~ Darryl & Shary Jan 3, 2012
• Lori's love for people and passion for life made her a joy to work with and a pleasure to be around. Like so many others, I will miss her genuine laugh and contagious smile. Thank you for choosing to spend your time with us, Lori. You will be forever missed and never replaced. Jan 3, 2012
• I would like to take this opportunity to extend my deepest sympathy and condolences to Lori's entire family, as well as her colleagues and friends. Lori, your vibrant personality will remain forever in my heart.
  
  Ed Arsenault Jan 3, 2012
• Rene and family - so very sorry to hear of your devastating loss. I know how much your girls mean to you and can only imagine your heartache. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
  
  Cara Lavigne Nisbet Jan 3, 2012
• Jean,
  
  I am so sorry for the loss of your grand-daughter. She will be joining Ed in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  
  Colleen Green - LPN who worked with Ed at BCM's. Jan 4, 2012
• My sweet amazing wonderful sister how I miss you more and more every moment. You were my rock and the person I looked up to most in this world. You were the best Auntie ever to my three girls and it breaks my heart every time I think of how much they are missing you too. I am trying to be strong for them but sometimes the pain is just to much. You touched so many lives! Thanks for always letting me know how proud you were of me and how much you loved me. You will always be in my heart. I won't say goodbye. I'll say see you later!
  
  Your sister, April Jan 4, 2012
• Thoughts and prayers with the Lavigne and Shipclark families.
  
  Sandie Phillips Jan 4, 2012
• My dear friend,
  
  There is so much to celebrate about you. During our time in Vancouver you were my closest friend and like a second sister. We were room mates through three different apartments and then later neighbours in the same building. You were such a good friend to me and I completely adored you. You loved your friends unconditionally and had such an open, caring, generous heart and spirit. You were such a bright light that truly enjoyed life and all of the beautiful things in it.
  Thank-you always and forever for being in my life. So many happy memories.. xoxo
  
  Your friend and biggest fan/'sidekick', Deidra Corbeil Jan 4, 2012
• Our prayers and thoughts to David an Elaine at this time of sorrow!!!
  
  Sonya Jan 4, 2012
• Elaine and David, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of one of your daughters. May you find comfort in knowing that so many people's lives were touched by Lori and that she was so loved.
  
  Wes and Janice Jan 4, 2012
• So many memories. I remember you sharing fond memories of being a kid and eating in the kitchen with April. I remember your beautiful skirt that you made from a scarf from France. I remember your love of kitchenware and vintage knick knacks. I remember you going to VCC everyday to make something of yourself. I remember how fast you walked around Vancouver and I struggled to keep up with you. I remember you and Deidra being two peas in a pod. I remember going to Videomatica so you could show me cool films that you knew about through Sam. I remember being at your wedding and how you and Tim sat with your grandparents. I remember meeting your cats, your little loves. I remember seeing you this past summer and how even though years had gone by you were still the loving, kind and considerate person I had always known. I'm so glad we got to catch up, I'll hold those days close to my heart when I think about you. Lori, I'll miss you so much.
  
  Sarah xoxo Jan 4, 2012
• So sad to hear of your daughter's passing Elaine and Dave. Far too young.
  
  I was at the beautiful memorial service today and pleased to see the great support from family and friends you have around you which I'm certain will help at this difficult time.
  
  Grant & Wendy Snow Jan 4, 2012
• Dear Dave and Elaine,
  
  We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter. No words can express our sympathy.
  
  Marilee and Brian Woinoski Jan 4, 2012
• So sorry to hear about your beloved daughter Lori. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
  
  Linda, Geoff & Chris Caldwell. Jan 6, 2012
• Gosh - it's such a shock that Lori is gone - she was such a great person. We were friends in high school and spent many years hanging out, watching moves, listening to music, chopping our hair, laughing, arguing and being kids. They were great times and I feel humbled and honoured that I got to spend as much time with you as I did. I send my condolences to the family - and especially to April as I know how much Lori loved and looked up to you! She will always be with you.
  
  Sylvia Farago Jan 7, 2012
• Our deepest sympathy to you Jeanne and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  
  Denise & Claude Arsenault, (Uncle Cleophas) Donnacona, Quebec. Jan 7, 2012
• To Rene (my best friend's big brother),
  
  I was so saddened to hear of your tragic loss through Marg last week. I can't begin to imagine the pain you and your family are feeling. After reading all the condolences I have been touched by the feeling she was a wonderful person. Lori has left a wonderful legacy of remembrance for all whose lives she touched - you must be so proud. I truly hope that my thoughts and prayers added to all the others will help in some small way to easy the hearts of all of your family.
  
  Sincerely, Debbie Bodnarchuk (Driedger) Jan 16, 2012

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