phi-lan-thro-py (noun): a desire to improve the material, social, and spiritual welfare of humanity, especially through charitable activities.
When an international business executive decided to make Kelowna home for his family because he felt the city offered a worthy environment in which to raise his daughter, we, as a community became the unwitting beneficiaries of that decision.
After years of living abroad, the last many of which were in the Netherlands, Barry brought an interesting perspective on community philanthropy back to his home country when he settled in Kelowna a year ago. In many parts of eastern Europe, where unemployment pushes twenty percent and entire cities live in poverty, people embrace a sense of community support that we, in North America, don’t fully understand in the same way. “When you have an opportunity to travel around a bit, it is a good experience to see how other people live,” says Barry.
While his family continues to settle in, meeting people and getting to know their new surroundings, Barry has taken a new job that still requires some travel, but is able to spend more time here enjoying that great Kelowna climate and the smaller community feel they opted for when they moved here. He has also taken the time to weigh his current income against his family’s needs, prompting him to recently make a substantial cash donation to the Kelowna Food Bank.
“This large Dutch based multi-national company that I had worked for opened my eyes to community philanthropy, because they just had a very humanistic view of things,” Barry says. “When I started working for them, I realized what good community support programs they had. They would give people time off to work with charities, they would donate money… and they liked to do it, locally. I found that was a great learning experience and we just decided that was the right approach to take. Local people helping local people is the right thing to do.
“One of the reasons we made the decision to come back to Canada as a family, was to try to do more of what we are talking about here. I’m working and we don’t need as much on a day to day basis, so we can afford to do this. It is part of the plan to support our community by giving more as we can. You always want to try to support some of those things that you can’t necessarily see, but that touch people. We live here, so we want do something that helps our neighbours.”
Supporting the Kelowna Food Bank as their charitable organization of choice was an easy decision for Barry and his family. “Shelter and food are the basics that everyone needs,” he says. “We take that for granted sometimes. And in this society that we live in, you would think we have enough wealth that it wouldn’t be an issue, but it still is. Instead of spending on so many needless things, we can use some of our money more constructively. Everybody has a different perspective on things, but my theory is that you do what you can. If you can do more, do more, but you should do something. Once you begin, it actually is very motivating to continue. It isn’t about how much, you just do it and then it becomes more of a priority, part of your process. There are people who have so much and others who have little, but if everyone gives something according to their means, then things improve. I’ve seen it.”
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