Given the opportunity to live with dignity and self-reliance over dependency, most will choose the former. For those who thrive on hard work and stubborn independence, the worst thing that can happen is to lose that ability to go to work.
Ken grew up on the west coast and moved to Kelowna in 1982, a young man who never shied away from tough, physical labour, eking out a living in forestry, logging, fish and wildlife. But he’s never been able to get used to the high cost of Okanagan living and the ‘sunshine tax’ seemingly paid by those who work in sunny Okanagan.
“When I was younger, I used to make more than twice what I got paid here for the same work I did on the coast. Living here, at times I have had two full-time jobs. But I’m open to doing whatever it takes to get by. I’ve worked in wrecking yards, irrigation system installation, helping friends with chores, whatever it takes,” says Ken.
After years of working two and three jobs at a time, Ken ended up on disability with thoracic outlet syndrome, a shoulder condition that prevents him from doing extended manual labour with his arms raised over his head. “It’s like carpal tunnel but affecting your shoulders,” he says. “You end up with your hands going numb and you drop things. I ended up seeing my doctor about three years ago, who sent me to a thoracic surgeon and was on the waiting list for surgery when I also discovered I had seminoma cancer.”
Ken was sent in for immediate surgery followed by a round of chemotherapy and has now been clear of cancer for six months. While going through the ordeal with cancer, he was also called for his shoulder surgery, which had to be delayed, but he is back on the waiting list to get to it.
In the meantime, while he waits for shoulder surgery, reluctantly, he has had to rely on the Kelowna Food Bank from time to time to help out while he tries to get by on a meager disability benefit. Ken says, “Basically, my disability barely covers rent and some of the bills, but you have to keep going… I had done a bunch of volunteer stuff at the Food Bank, unloading trucks and stuff like that, so I knew they were there to help. I’ve used them once or twice, but I don’t like to use it. I mean, it’s for people who really need it and people who abuse it really tick me off. If you are stubborn and self-sufficient like me, you don’t like to use those services if you don’t need to. Even when I was going through Chemo, I was putting in three or four hours a day, working and able to pay my bills.”
For Ken, he’ll give back to the Food Bank, again, when he can. Right now, he’s concerned for those who aren’t able to get by during this difficult time of the year when much of the seasonal work is shut down. And he knows it is a situation that, for many, can stretch well into the new year.
“Do what you can,” he says. “It isn’t easy for anybody, these days, but if you can help out, then help out. “Whatever you can donate… a couple of cans of food, a dollar or two, whatever you can do, do it. Even just helping out, volunteering. I’m a help-o-holic. When I see someone who needs a hand, I stop to help out. Everyone can do that. Do what you can.”
HERE’S HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE:
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Make a donation on Castanet (www.castanet.net) CAST-A-LIGHT Campaign from now until December 31st, 2011. (A tax receipt will be e-mailed to you for donations over $10.)
Drop your CAST-A-LIGHT donation off at the Kelowna Community Food Bank at 1265 Ellis Street (Downtown Kelowna) between 9 AM and 4 PM, Monday-Friday.
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Kelowna Community Food Bank
1265 Ellis Street, Kelowna, BC
V1Y 1Z7
Phone: 250-763-7161
Fax: 250-763-9116
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