From BC to Alberta, Saskatchewan, Ontario, then back to Saskatchewan, Alberta and BC, all by the time she was sixteen, it’s no wonder Shanon wants her infant daughter to have roots.
She grew up on horse racing tracks across Canada, daughter to a single mom who had a promising career as a jockey, starting off winning an award as a Rookie ‘Bug’ in Penticton. As a child, Shanon had no regrets, enjoying the protective kinship of the racing community. “It was kind of a communal thing, where everyone kept an eye on me, because I was Kathy’s daughter and she was one of their best jockeys,” says Shanon.
From stable brat to grown woman, Shanon and her mom eventually settled in Kelowna, where she enrolled in an Early Childhood Education program at a local college. She jokes that having a child was not part of the plan or the curriculum, but after taking some time off to have her daughter, Rheya, now six months, Shanon says wouldn’t have traded the experience of motherhood for anything. She has since been able to go back and complete her studies. “When I was in school taking a course on ‘Early Childhood Growth and Development’, one of our teachers said she hoped someone would get pregnant so we could go through it with them. I came in the next Monday and said, “…hope you meant that,” she laughs.
Shanon is thankful to have been referred to the Kelowna Food Bank. “I was in school, so I didn’t qualify for any maternity leave and wasn’t working so didn’t have any income other than a small child support and income assistance benefit once Rheya was born,” she says. “My doctor told me about the Food Bank’s Tiny Bundles Program. Things like diapers and formula are so expensive so it really helps out. It’s nice to have the public health nurse there every couple of weeks so I can weigh the baby and get answers to a lot of the questions I have. She’s a great resource.”
As an Interior Health Authority public health nurse, Holly Kadlec has taken a lead role in supporting the Tiny Bundles Program over the past few years, trying to create consistency with bi-monthly visits to the Food Bank. She sets up information displays, offers material on other community resources and parenting programs available to young mothers like The Bridge, Baby Talk and Building Healthy Families, and provides consultation on infant care and nutrition.
Kadlec says, “It puts a familiar face to Public Health and opens the door for young mothers to know we’re here and we’re approachable. I think nutrition is so essential… for families to know about healthy food choices, what your child should be eating, when to introduce solids, what they can actually make themselves… it is all so important.”
For Shanon, the Tiny Bundles Program and public health nurse visits have offered a great forum to meet other young mothers, discussing other community resources, infant health and nutritional issues.
“Dealing with the Food Bank staff and volunteers has been wonderful. They are always willing to help out with a few extras when I need them… help me out to the car with my hamper and stroller,” says Shanon. “I couldn’t survive without them. I wouldn’t be able to feed my baby. I’m a single mom and they’ve been a blessing.”
Shanon looks to the future and sees herself working in a daycare where Rheya can also be part of her day. “I would want Rheya to be close to me,” she says. “It would be a great way for her to grow up, surrounded by lots of other kids. Kind of like the communal experience I grew up with. You know the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child”.
“Once I’m in a position to, I want to be able to sponsor a family myself. It doesn’t take much and it means so much to people who rely on the Food Bank for help.”
HERE’S HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE:
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Make a donation on Castanet (www.castanet.net) CAST-A-LIGHT Campaign from now until December 31st, 2011. (A tax receipt will be e-mailed to you for donations over $10.)
Drop your CAST-A-LIGHT donation off at the Kelowna Community Food Bank at 1265 Ellis Street (Downtown Kelowna) between 9 AM and 4 PM, Monday-Friday.
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Kelowna Community Food Bank
1265 Ellis Street, Kelowna, BC
V1Y 1Z7
Phone: 250-763-7161
Fax: 250-763-9116
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