For a young fourth generation Kelowna child named Layla, life doesn’t get much better than sharing cereal snacks with Grandma. For Grandma, she’s thankful just to have those few morsels to share.
Sharon was born and raised here, in a simpler time when Kelowna was a small rural community where people worked hard but always seemed to get by and food seemed plentiful. She married and had her own family, making ends meet by working nights, while her husband worked days as an electrician. “We were the working poor,” says Sharon. “We managed to pay the bills, but we were always two paycheques away from disaster,” she says.
She looks at the wall of family pictures with pride and some disappointment for a family that couldn’t stay together. Sharon and her husband separated after eighteen years of marriage and eventually divorced, but that strong family tree of children and grandchildren continued to give her the strength to keep going. Unfortunately, there wasn’t enough money to carry her through on her own and after exhausting her savings, Sharon’s health gave way to the stress of being alone, living in poverty. She has since battled migraines and severe depression.
After a series of moves through substandard dwellings and living on a small social assistance benefit, Sharon finally found an apartment in a subsidized housing complex, but even with that, the means don’t meet the end. She needed more in order to pay the bills, keep a roof over her head, and eat, so came to the Kelowna Food Bank for some part-time assistance. “I try not to abuse it and some months I can squeak by, but other months I need some help. I only use the Food Bank when I need it,” says Sharon.
With that extra help there when she’s needed it, Sharon has found the reduced stress alone has improved her health tremendously. “Good nutrition leads to better health,” she says. “And I am totally grateful for the help provided by the Food Bank. They have great respect for the clients who use their services and I think that experience goes for all of the people I see at the Food Bank. It is a very respectful organization.”
Sharon’s daughter and son-in-law work hard to provide for their daughter, but they struggle to make ends meet too and that’s where Sharon steps in to help by looking after her granddaughter, Layla, when she can. “She’s so precious to me,” Sharon says. Nothing makes me happier than watching her grow and learn and sharing what I can to help.”
Sharon offers profound thanks to the community for the help and support she gets, but she admonishes some for the lack of assistance where it should be. “I think the government should take a more active role. They go all over helping third world countries, but when it comes to the working poor, we’re invisible. We’re still here. The working poor in Canada are still here and need more help.”
HERE’S HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE:
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Make a donation on Castanet (www.castanet.net) CAST-A-LIGHT Campaign from now until December 31st, 2011. (A tax receipt will be e-mailed to you for donations over $10.)
Drop your CAST-A-LIGHT donation off at the Kelowna Community Food Bank at 1265 Ellis Street (Downtown Kelowna) between 9 AM and 4 PM, Monday-Friday.
Mail in your CAST-A-LIGHT donation to:
Kelowna Community Food Bank
1265 Ellis Street, Kelowna, BC
V1Y 1Z7
Phone: 250-763-7161
Fax: 250-763-9116
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