A single mother faced with a choice between the safety of her family and the high cost of living elsewhere really has no choice. When confronted with that decision while living in an unruly northern community, Amanda packed up her children and moved to Kelowna in 2010.
It was a rough start for Amanda and her three active children, Dakota, 14, Chase, 13 and Riley, 8. At first, they stayed with friends until they could find a place of their own. Then the reality of Kelowna’s high cost of living kicked in. While continuing to look for work and living on a small social assistance benefit, Amanda had to come to terms with how expensive it is to live here and how difficult it is to find decent, affordable shelter for her family.
Amanda soon registered with the Kelowna Food Bank for the help she desperately needed to feed her children. “We get a monthly hamper but it’s still a struggle a lot of the time to make the food last. I will go days without eating so my kids can eat,” says Amanda. “Of course, going hungry isn’t good for me, but my kids come first.”
Even with the stress and challenges of moving and going to new schools, the children are surprisingly upbeat about their new community and the support of Food Bank programs like Kids Snack Pack. Riley says, “I get snacks at school with my lunch and that’s awesome.”
Amanda is happy to report she has just started a new job and Christmas is looking brighter for her and her kids, but she still has concerns about making ends meet. “Finally getting work is going to help get us over the hump, for sure, but it’s a low paying job so it’s still going to be tight with the cost of living here,” she says. “On the brighter side, we are getting a Christmas hamper and that will go a long way toward making the holiday better for all of us.”
The entire family is thankful for the support of the Food Bank and each in their own way appreciates what the Food Bank provides to help the family get by. For young Riley, it’s about the community giving back, helping families like his that are struggling. Chase recognizes how the Food Bank benefits those who don’t have enough money to afford healthy food. Dakota acknowledges how helpful it is to families like theirs and how important it is, especially when it comes from the community. Amanda simply says, “Thank you for thinking of us. We’re so fortunate to have the help and the access to food. It relieves a lot of stress for families that might otherwise have to resort to whatever means possible to survive… and leads to a healthier and safer community all round.”
Amanda and her children all agree that they will give back to their new community, volunteering to help at the Food Bank and other organizations when they can. With that, Dakota begins with the simple gesture of offering a candy cane and a wish for a happy holiday.
HERE’S HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE:
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Make a donation on Castanet (www.castanet.net) CAST-A-LIGHT Campaign from now until December 31st, 2011. (A tax receipt will be e-mailed to you for donations over $10.)
Drop your CAST-A-LIGHT donation off at the Kelowna Community Food Bank at 1265 Ellis Street (Downtown Kelowna) between 9 AM and 4 PM, Monday-Friday.
Mail in your CAST-A-LIGHT donation to:
Kelowna Community Food Bank
1265 Ellis Street, Kelowna, BC
V1Y 1Z7
Phone: 250-763-7161
Fax: 250-763-9116
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