As a young, free-spirited academic growing up in the American mid-west, Allisa believed there were those who lived in a real life and those who lived a life fantastic. How could she have known that her life fantastic would come from the realization of a childhood obsession with rural British Columbia borne of a magazine presentation she had made to her grade four class?
Allisa married young and moved to Canada, but eventually divorced and headed west to fulfil that childhood obsession with BC. After many years of living in Vancouver she contracted Crohn's disease and with her health deteriorating, was advised to move from the city to less stressful, cleaner surroundings, arriving in Kelowna in 1992, to work on an organic farm. Over the years that followed, her disease abated some, but doctors made it very clear she would never bare children.
Then, at the age of forty-five, Allisa found out she was pregnant, an impossibility but true. “I am an only parent, a senior citizen raising a fifteen-year-old son, my miracle boy, Tennessee,” says Allisa. “It was really, really, hard. I was all alone, very ill and living on disability benefits. But by using my wits and willpower and every resource I had available to me I have been able to raise a wonderful son.”
From her early years in Kelowna to today, Allisa has seen the Kelowna Food Bank grow from a small organization to what it is today, helping thousands of families like her and her son. “When I first came to the Food Bank here in Kelowna, at first only occasionally, it was as stressful and humiliating as it could get… you know, here I was begging for food. I have noticed the experience has improved a great deal in the way clients are treated with such respect and dignity, now. The people really care. I feel like I have a relationship with some of the volunteers,” she says.
“With a growing teenage son, I am going to have to rely on the Food Bank for more help. Now that he is a teenager, better nutrition is so vital to his wellbeing,” says Allisa. “Kids need support in so many ways. He is a good kid but he has spent a lot of years feeling less than completely secure with us living in crappy suites and often abusive surroundings, and me always feeling like I could barely provide for him.”
Allisa works as she is able, part-time, as a child care assistant, but would like to go back to school some day to be better prepared to share her experiences, her passion for kids, song and the environment. “I have a lot of gratitude for the Food Bank and I find that I am always looking for ways that I can give back,” says Allisa. “I find myself doing a lot of parent to parent peer support in the lineup. As an older parent, I often have insights I can share with some of the younger parents. In the past I’ve volunteered with the Healthy Food Council and done some community work.”
Allisa has a message of thanks and humility for the community that has supported her. “Thank you for these programs that have helped me to raise a healthy child and to maintain my own health. We live in such abundance in the Okanagan and many of us have had our intelligence occluded by social conditions that should not be tolerated in our society. To be without money is not poverty, it is penury. To be without hope is poverty.”
HERE’S HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE:
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Make a donation on Castanet (www.castanet.net) CAST-A-LIGHT Campaign from now until December 31st, 2011. (A tax receipt will be e-mailed to you for donations over $10.)
Drop your CAST-A-LIGHT donation off at the Kelowna Community Food Bank at 1265 Ellis Street (Downtown Kelowna) between 9 AM and 4 PM, Monday-Friday.
Mail in your CAST-A-LIGHT donation to:
Kelowna Community Food Bank
1265 Ellis Street, Kelowna, BC
V1Y 1Z7
Phone: 250-763-7161
Fax: 250-763-9116
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