His hands are rough and calloused, the hands of a hard working man. They rest on the table, idle, but they’d rather be working, for as Henry says, “Idle hands just leads to ‘stinkin thinkin’ and not much good ever comes of that.”
A philosopher mechanic in his own right, Henry has had a lot of time to think, on his own, over a lifetime of hardship and loneliness. Since being outcast from a large family as a troubled youth, he moved around, worked hard and eventually earned his red seal mechanic’s ticket, but at the price of loneliness. He has always hoped to reconnect with his long lost siblings.
About four years ago, just before he turned fifty, Henry heard from one of his sisters, whom he hadn’t seen since childhood. She had looked him up in Alberta. She urged him to move to Kelowna where they could catch up and get reacquainted. For Henry, this was a dream come true, so he did move to Kelowna in 2007 and soon found work. Shortly afterward though, he fell ill to a severe heart condition. His doctor told him he would never be able to work full-time, again.
Henry was devastated. “I was helping out my sister, too, and now couldn’t even do that,” he says. “It was discouraging… on the verge of being suicidal. I had no income for several months and then only some small social assistance. I am a patient man and I like to think there’s a bigger plan, but when my savings dwindled to a $1.15 in the bank, I knew I needed help. I didn’t even have enough for a loaf of bread.”
Henry saw an ad in the paper about some of the Kelowna Food Bank programs and decided he’d do something he swore he’d never do, put his pride in his pocket, and went to see if they could help him. He was overwhelmed by the kindness and kinship he found at the Food Bank.
“Maybe that was part of the bigger plan,” he says. “These are good people, not just the staff and volunteers, but many of the clients here too. You know, when you’re faced with starving or eating, you have to make some hard choices and that can put a lot of pressure on people. Sometimes people can get a little agitated, and a few of us will try to help calm things down. We all do what we can to help out.”
Henry has been coming to the Food Bank for about a year, but doesn’t use the service all of the time. “I’ve been getting a monthly hamper from the Food Bank, but I only get it when I have to,” he says. “I can still work part-time, and when I don’t need it, I don’t take it. It’s good to know it is there to sustain me when I do need it, though.”
Henry tends to be very philosophical about the way things happen. “You know, some things happen for a reason and we’re all in this together, so we need to help each other when we can,” he says. “We don’t choose to have poor health or plan to be stuck in a low income job. It happens and it creates opportunities to meet people you might not otherwise meet, to learn things about yourself at the same time.”
For Henry, what he would really like is the opportunity to reconnect with some of his other siblings. He says, “That would be the biggest blessing I could have. With the help of the Food Bank, I’ll keep my health up, and maybe I’ll have a chance to do that.”
HERE’S HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE:
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Make a donation on Castanet (www.castanet.net) CAST-A-LIGHT Campaign from now until December 31st, 2011. ( A tax receipt will be emailed to you for donations over $10.)
Drop your CAST-A-LIGHT donation off at the Kelowna Community Food Bank at 1265 Ellis Street (Downtown Kelowna) between 9 AM and 4 PM, Monday-Friday.
Mail in your CAST-A-LIGHT donation to:
Kelowna Community Food Bank
1265 Ellis Street, Kelowna, BC
V1Y 1Z7
Phone: 250-763-7161
Fax: 250-763-9116
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