Cast-A-Light

Single mother plunges to rock bottom
by Contributed - Story: 67601
Nov 23, 2011 / 5:00 am

Bad things tend to come in threes. Running from an abusive relationship and then losing her job were hard, but with no resources left, rock bottom came the day Lynda had to place her daughter, Jasmine, in foster care.

She found herself in a shelter, quickly deciding her only option was to take control and get her life back on track. “I didn’t know how to cope. I would wake up from horrific nightmares…with a scream in my throat, not able to actually release it,” Lynda says. “But I have a decent education and I was determined.”

Even with the slow economy, Lynda managed to land a decent administrative job, soon found a new apartment and regained custody of her daughter. Things were going well and she was getting her life back together, but then she developed health issues and after months of testing, learned she had fibromyalgia.

“I am on disability now, learning to cope with the illness and the chronic pain. There are days when it feels like I am walking on razor blades,” she says.

Learning to cope has led her to the discovery of a natural artistic ability she didn’t know she had. Painting has become both therapy and a hobby for her. Lynda says, “My goal is that one day I will have my walls filled with my paintings. They have become my voice, my form of expression.”

Lynda continues to do the best she can for herself and her daughter, now almost sixteen, but with the high cost of living on a small disability income, necessity has led her to use the services of the Kelowna Food Bank.

“I started using the Food Bank about two years ago on an occasional basis. Work was slowing down and I was coming to grips with my medical condition. It was a tough time,” says Lynda. “I am a very proud person and it’s difficult having to go to the Food Bank, but you do what you have to do for your family and they are very supportive. We get a monthly food hamper, and this year we’ll get a Christmas hamper,” she says.

It isn’t only the food that Lynda appreciates. She is also very appreciative of the help provided to her by Food Bank staff. “With my physical disabilities, sometimes I can’t lift the hamper my food comes in, so the volunteers help me get it to my little truck,” she says. “Little things like that make such a difference for me now. You know, they ask how I’m doing and seem to really want to hear. They get to know you and they care.”

Lynda hopes for improvement to her medical condition and to be able to go back to school at some point to upgrade her computer skills. Right now, she volunteers with different community support programs when she can and sits on a number of committees, giving back to people, who, like herself, need a hand up to get by.

For now, with the help of the Food Bank, she is getting by and working on her health.

Lynda’s message is simple. “Give. There are lots of people out there who need a little help, these days… lots of people like me who just can’t get by on their own.”

HERE’S HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE:

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Drop your CAST-A-LIGHT donation off at the Kelowna Community Food Bank at 1265 Ellis Street (Downtown Kelowna) between 9 AM and 4 PM, Monday-Friday.

 

Mail in your CAST-A-LIGHT donation to:

Kelowna Community Food Bank

1265 Ellis Street, Kelowna, BC

V1Y 1Z7

Phone: 250-763-7161

Fax: 250-763-9116

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About Cast-A-Light

Castanet.net has partnered with the Kelowna Community Food Bank to raise much needed funds, food, and toys for children and families in our community.

Our goal this year is to raise $50,000 with all funds going to programs at the Kelowna Community Food Bank.

Your donation to the fifth annual Cast-A-Light Campaign will provide a brighter future for those less fortunate in our community.
The Kelowna Community Food Bank will acknowledge all gifts to the Cast-A-Light Campaign. Tax receipts are mailed for donations in the amount of $10 or more with addresses provided.

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About the Food Bank

The Kelowna Community Food Bank is a self-supporting non-profit organization, raising food and funds through donations, special events, community food drives and local and national sponsors. The Food Bank is operated by a volunteer board of directors, 8 staff members and more than 100 volunteers who contribute over 20,000 hours annually, providing essential services including food collection, distribution and sorting, hamper preparation, client assistance and referrals, and special event planning and fundraising.

The Kelowna Community Food Bank was established in 1983 to provide short-term support to Kelowna families and individuals in need of temporary assistance. Since then the mission has grown to help alleviate chronic hunger and poverty in the Central Okanagan by providing our clients with a 5 to 7 day supply of healthy food on a monthly basis. Annually, we serve more than 30,000 persons including nearly 10,000 children, distributing over $2 million in food.

The Kelowna Food Bank is a member of The BC Association of Food Banks and the Canadian Association of Food Banks (CAFB).

1265 Ellis Street
Kelowna, BC V1Y 1Z7

Phone: 250-763-7161
Fax: 250-763-9116
Email: info@kcfb.ca
http://www.kelownafoodbank.com/



Family profiles on this page have been provided by the Kelowna Community Food Bank.



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