Dear Dawn...

I have been single for some time now and really want to change that. What do you see for me in the near future regarding attracting a partner into my life?

Thank you, G.

 

Dear G.,

The best thing you can do for yourself to attract love into your life is know that you deserve it. When we feel lovable ourselves, from the inside out, it is much easier to attract a partner to match the same vibration and see us as being lovable and worthy.

I feel that in the past you have not taken into consideration what chemistry between you and a partner would look like and feel like. Now is an opportune time for you to look deeply into that and determine what having chemistry with another means to you and how different your relationship will be because of it. Our imaginations are a great tool for doing this. One way to invoke your imagination is to allow yourself the luxury of daydreaming.

Write down any thoughts, feelings and images that come to mind and from your heart. These are guide posts to what will be your ideal partnership that includes amazing chemistry.

Divine timing is at work here; this simply means that the more prepared you are the universe will step in and meet you at least half way in the right way and at the right time.

I sense a feeling of playfulness and lightheartedness with this new partner. Allow yourself to experience this and bring this sense of play into your relationship from the very beginning.

Ultimately, I do see you meeting someone within the next few months. Probably closer to the end of May but it is worth the wait.

Another exercise you can do to prepare you to meet this partner is to make a list of the top ten qualities you possess that you would also like your partner to possess. Sometimes we look to meet someone who is so different from us but the truth is that unless we share the same core qualities and values the relationship is likely not to last.

In the meantime, try to take your mind off of the outcome so that the universe can work its magic on your behalf. Enjoy your life being single now and that will serve you in feeling the confidence you need that will draw this partner to you.

Every day is a new day… Just for today allow yourself to enjoy being single. Feel the inner beauty and confidence that exists within and simply needs to be expressed in your day to day to day life. This will help you to feel lovable and worthy of attracting a great partner into your life. Let go of timing and outcomes and allow the universe to work its benevolent magic in your life. You will be pleasantly surprised at the quality of person you will meet by doing this. You do deserve a healthy relationship and it will happen.

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