Six of One, Half Dozen of the other

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Every once in a while someone will look at me funny – first I wonder if I have something on my shirt or a cowlick in my hair, but then I realize it’s because I have uttered one of those expressions that puzzle people. I grew up including such sayings as this week’s title in my vocabulary so it didn’t dawn on me immediately that everyone wasn’t aware of what they meant. It made me think that we all have our signature phrases and unique touches that may go right over people’s heads…

My Gramps was famous for expressions, and made-up words for things. If you were around him enough as I was when I was young, then it was easy to know what he meant by “hand me the thing-um-a-jig in the whats-ummy there in the corner” (read: pass me the spatula in the drawer – so I can flip the pancakes). He also used some words that do really exist in dictionaries, but you might not think they would… like “flibbertigibbet”. You know, as in “That Mrs. so-and-so was a real flibbertigibbet, keeping you at the fence all afternoon with her chatter if you weren’t careful”. I loved hearing words like that. I used to think that it must have been my Gramps who invented cool words. I bet he gave Mary Poppins the idea for supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!

I tried to look up “six of one…” to see if there was an interesting story behind it, but I couldn’t find anything except that the saying has existed since the 1800’s. It of course means that two alternatives are equal. “Shall we take Main Street or the back way home?” Gramps would reply,” It’s six of one, half dozen of the other”. The most interesting twist to all this is that he also used an alternative: “One horse, one rabbit”, which meant the same thing, although I am not sure how horses and rabbits could be interchangeable. However, the more time I spent with my Gramps, the more easily I came to understand all his sayings and habits. It became something special between us. We were like two peas in a pod.

I have had the good fortune to develop many special relationships in my life, one of the current ones being with my husband. I got the chance to work with Martin this past week at one of his cooking gigs, which was a real treat. Not only did I love being in the kitchen all day, helping out (I got to make the trifle for dessert!), but I got to hang out with one of my best pals. And guess what?! He had a new expression that I hadn’t heard!

I was making the raspberry sauce for the trifle, and we had to cool it down, so we poured it from the pot into a bowl, and Martin said, “Just put its bum in the water.” There was a larger bowl half full of water sitting on the counter, and I knew just what he meant. He said the same thing about the herbs I washed for garnish. I put their bums in water too! It made me feel really good knowing that I could keep up with what he needed, as we don’t work together very often any more. It’s fun to share a special moment with someone close. I got the same cozy feeling as when I tasted the trifle later.

I suppose I could get quite corny at this point, “going whole hog” on the food expressions or on cute little ditties about the poignancy of friendship. But that would really “take the cake”, don’t you think? (Did you know that comes from cake walk competitions in the 1800’s? They were something like musical chairs only the last person left got to “take the cake” as a prize). All I wanted to say was that I am grateful for those friends who have enjoyed my company enough to share those expressions near and dear to their hearts, for I have certainly enjoyed theirs!

Here’s to good times shared with loved ones – if you’re not sure how to find any of either, remember that old saying… “Eat, drink and be merry!”

Kristin

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