We talk a lot about relationships
Whether they’re romantic, plutonic, business focused, educational, or political, the state of our world is usually a reflection of the state of our relationships.
When we’re getting along with the people who are important to us, life is usually pretty good. When we’re struggling with people, we get stressed. Depending on the nature of the relationship, our emotions can run from mildly annoyed to deep anger.
It’s no wonder that your emotions can run high when things aren’t working out with the people you depend on to help manage your financial affairs.
To some it’s simply business, but to many people, money and finances are emotional subjects. Whether it is reflective of past experiences or current situations, we all have certain beliefs surrounding money.
Volatility brings change
When the markets turn negative and your monthly statement keeps falling, it gets harder to remain faithful to the program you first bought into, and the person who introduced you to it.
Volatility brings change, and bad markets will inevitably deliver change. Whether it’s with your accountant, your financial advisor or your banker, when the economy and markets start to look a bit like a roller coaster, the result is often roster changes.
When one of your advisors leaves, it should be a moment for reflection and an opportunity to take stock and evaluate the past. Measure what was delivered, and what was swept under the rug.
It’s about trust
The key to this process is to remember that you are paying for a service. Yes, in terms of the investment business you are also paying for performance, but it’s more than just the money; it’s about trust.
Do you feel comfortable with your advisor? Have you built a strong relationship, or is it something you could take or leave? Where do your loyalties lie, with the institution or with the advisor? Who have you been with the longest? Who has had the biggest impact on your life, and that of your family?
Are there greener pastures somewhere else or would you just be trading places?
In the financial services world, trust is sometimes an overplayed card. It isn’t this thing you can buy or sell, it’s something that needs to be built. It’s a result of time, dependability, consistency and perspective.
The only way someone can become your trusted financial advisor is if you trust them, and that takes more than a good marketing campaign.
It’s about knowledge
Does your advisor know what they’re talking about? Do they take the time to help you understand the details? Do they deliver on their promises? Are there a lot of errors and mistakes or are they consistently on?
Do they have their own opinions about the direction of markets, economies or interest rates? Are those opinions consistent with yours? Do they “get you?”
We all have our own way of looking at the world, and most times the people who see the world the same way we do are the ones we are drawn to. That doesn’t mean we need to agree that there’s land ahead, we just need to be looking through the same spyglass.
Performance is important
As much as I believe that it’s more than just about the money, good long term track records go a long way to enhancing a relationship.
Some advisors rely on other managers for their returns, some collaborate with their clients to make decisions, and others make all the investment decisions on behalf of their clients.
Each has merits and detriments, but at the end of the day, whichever method they choose needs to produce results. These results, when combined with the other factors, should add up to an easy decision.
If you find yourself struggling over your choice, it may just mean that you haven’t found the right person yet.
It’s your money
When it comes to money, my advice to clients is this: Always remember that it’s your money, and that ultimately you will have to live with the choices you make.
Choose wisely, take your time and remember Benjamin Franklin’s words, “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.”
The financial world is full of plans: Retirement plans, investment plans, estate plans, and financial plans
They are offered as the solutions to all your problems, the keys to your successful, happy life. Problem is, they’re only a tool, a way to organize your thoughts, goals, and actions. It’s a roadmap, if you will, of a journey we all must make. Any plan is better than no plan, unless of course it’s a bad one.
Think of the way you planned your last trip
You didn’t simply go online, pick a good review and order your tickets. No, if you’re like most people, you probably had conversations with friends, compared destinations that were within budget (and maybe tempted by a few that weren’t).
You narrowed it down to a couple of locations, then started doing your research. Maybe you called someone who had been there, or you signed up for a forum and started a conversation, or you went to Tripadvisor and started clicking through other people’s experiences.
Whichever way you went, your goal was to gather as much relevant information as you could, so you could make an informed decision.
Now you’ve sketched out the bones of the trip. You know where you’re going, you know when – now it’s time for the details. You’ve narrowed the flights to a couple of options that will get you there in reasonable comfort and without spending 12 hours in Denver Airport. You’ve selected a hotel based on price, location, and proximity to the beach. You’ve written down the rough price of everything, and have a pretty good idea what the trip will cost you. Now it comes down to availability and pricing.
The next step is the tough one, committing your hard earned cash
So, now you’ve done it. You paid the deposits, booked the airfare, arranged ground transport, booked a couple of side tours or shows, and chosen a few restaurants. You’ve printed all the confirmations, and before you sits a great stack of papers outlining your journey. The question is, will this stack of papers guarantee you a great trip?
No. What makes the trip great is the time you put into the planning process, the accuracy with which your choices reflect your desires, the timing of the different parts of your journey, and your ability to know what to give up and what to hold onto. Without all that, it’s just paper.
A financial plan, like a travel plan, is only as good as the time put into it
To be effective, a financial plan must reflect what you really want out of the rest of your life. It must balance your needs and wants with the funds and assets you have.
When there are shortfalls, you must either make adjustments to your life or look for creative solutions and work-arounds. Your plan must be up to date and, most importantly, must reflect your reality.
The nitty gritty
Don’t leave your future to chance - or to some company’s software program.
Make sure your plan is what you and your family want.
Make sure it covers surprises along the way, and leaves you with enough wriggle room to ride out the bad times.
Make sure it addresses the things you really want to accomplish, the places you want to go, and the things you’re hoping to do.
Most of all make sure it’s based on reality, not historical forecasts, pretty charts, and generalizations.
If you are doing this hands on, be thorough, and be honest with yourself.
If your using a professional, make sure they take the time to ask questions, gather facts (both good and bad), weigh options, and ultimately put forward a plan that doesn’t confuse or confound you.
Make sure it’s a plan you can live with, because you may not have a choice once the plane has taken off.
One of the top concerns of retired people is wondering whether they will outlive their money. With medical advances increasing our life expectancies and the changing nature of markets, employment opportunities, and predictable benefits like defined benefit pensions and healthcare, it’s no wonder people are concerned.
In days gone by you retired at 65, took your company pension, Canada Pension, what savings you had, and the extended health benefits that continued on, and you comfortably enjoyed the golden years. Today more and more people are self employed, the defined benefit pension has been replaced with the defined contribution pension, and health benefits often don’t exist when you are employed, let alone after you retire.
The world is in the midst of dramatic shift. The age of technology is rapidly changing our habits, our downtime, and our working life. All this change, while it may be bringing about a great new world, is creating a lot of uncertainty, fear, and anxiety in people as they look to their futures.
There are hundreds, if not thousands, of strategies and solutions out there designed to improve people’s financial lives, each with the implicit promise of being the one solution to all your problems.
Truth is, there are really only three things you can do that will affect your financial life: Make more money, spend less money, or change your expectations.
Make more money
For those still working, the potential to increase income is a real one. They can manage their employment careers, work more, or create additional sources of income. For some, that may be a small business, for others a real estate investment property. For others still it’s the long term performance of investment portfolios.
Spend less money
Spending less money is the more painful choice for many. It involves budgeting, understanding where the money goes, then making hard decisions on what expenses will stay and which have to go. It’s unpleasant and involves discipline.
For some, though, there is an element of humility. Too often our self-worth is tangled up in our lifestyle and our possessions. Wants and needs become blurred, the definition of necessity has become increasingly vague. Food, shelter, love and safety used to be the needs, everything else was optional. Today, everything is a need, the lines are blurry at best and for many non-existent.
Managing expectations is more complicated, and requires us to question the things we think we need versus the things we actually need. For some it can be difficult, after a lifetime of comfort and convenience.
Revaluating things in your life is always hard, but when it is forced by a lack of financial resources, it makes the task that much more challenging.
Minimalism and back to basics movements are growing, though, and people are questioning their lives and the material desires that drive them. The generations following the baby boomers are in the process of reinventing the world their parents created. The world whose movie antihero, a man named Gordon Gekko, famously extolled, “Greed is good”.
Creating a successful retirement will always be more than just about the money. Often solutions to our financial challenges are the ones that make us happier people in the long run. Working hard and building successes, cutting out the things that neither make us happy nor fulfilled, and keeping a grounded perspective: These are some of the building blocks of a good life. They also happen to be the keys to a balanced financial life.
Most people misunderstand marketing. It’s usually thrown in with sales and assumed to be just another way for a company to sell you whatever it is they’re selling.
The truth is, marketing is the natural evolution of the standard sales approach. Henry Ford, when referring to colour selection on the Model T, said, "Any customer can have a car painted any colour that he wants, so long as it’s black."
Today the consumer is king: The sheer number of possibilities is mind boggling. If you go into a retail clothing store today to buy a pair of jeans, you quickly realize the days of single wash Levis 501s are over. You have a selection of washes from faded out to almost black. You have straight cut, boot cut, tapered fit, and skinny jeans.
Go to a restaurant today to order a burger: Whole wheat, regular, or gluten free? How would you like it cooked? Fries, salad, or half and half?
In virtually every industry, the range of selection, and ability for people to have an active role in the process, has increased exponentially.
Financial services is no exception. The delivery systems, investment choices, fee or cost options, and service levels are all part of the decision making process, or at least they should be.
For many in the full service side of the industry though, there is still a desire to offer clients not necessarily what they want or need but what is best for them to offer. This attitude tends to go with the cookie cutter approach to wealth and financial management. The one size fits all solution.
As clients become more knowledgeable about their options, they begin to ask more questions and want a more detailed, transparent approach to help them make decisions. They want to know all their options, and the best solutions for them.
Unfortunately, taking time to do the back work and produce a proposal that helps clients make decisions eats into the profitability of the old practice models. As they say, time is money.
I remember a conversation with a friend of mine after the 2008 market meltdown. We would often debate the industry and the markets, and while she was only involved as an investor, she enjoyed the conversation.
Her comments have stayed with me. She said that prior to 2008, we were willing to pay an advisor fees because we believed he could protect us from an event just like 2008 event.
After going through the correction, we realized that no one has the ability to protect us, it’s just a question of managing the risks, not avoiding them. This begs the question - why should we pay these fees if advisors can’t protect us from the markets?
The short answer is that managing your financial future is about more than absolute returns. Certainly there are steps one can take to minimize the downside of the markets, but the price is lesser upside.
Having a successful retirement isn’t only about money. It’s about lifestyle, health, accommodations, personal legacy, social networks, and interests. It’s about the peace of mind that comes of knowing you have yourself on track.
There are many people in the industry who understand this shift, and they have created processes to make sure that not only are their clients well informed, they are also comfortable with the solutions. Clients have become part of the process, and understand why they’re investing their money the way they are.
The discussion should start with, “What is it you’re looking to achieve? What kind of lifestyle would you like to live? What are your hopes and dreams?”
These are all legitimate questions when planning your financial future. It doesn’t guarantee you’ll get to where you want to go, but it does increase the likelihood. It also gives you a clear picture of what it is you need to do.
Selecting the right investment products shouldn’t centre around, “What was the best performer last year?” or “Which fund has the lowest MER?”
Don’t get me wrong, those are important factors, but they must be taken in context with considerations such as your time frame, risk parameters, income needs, the amount of participation you want to have, reporting expectations, and financial situation.
There is a right solution out there for everyone. The key is to understand that it isn’t the same solution for everyone. It’s different for each client, and if you’re being told that it isn’t, what they’re really saying is that you are welcome to any colour you want, so long as it’s black.
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